Serenity1Senior Contributor
Narcissistic abuse surviver
Why do Narcissistic Abuse Survivors continue to come across or attract narcissits every where they go?
I am convinced the Principal of my daughters school is a Narcissit after today's meeting with him where he tried to Guilt & Shame me about keeping my daughter home from school on Doctors Advice until she goes for her mental health assessment- he tried to gas light me in order for me to REACT in anger to what he was saying- I did not- I kept my cool because I was recognising the signs- in order to distract from a LIE he told me that I caught him out on & told him I don't believe him & he tried to patronise me every time I spoke, saying "JO-come on!" As if what I was saying was crazy & so much more that I can't recall right now as I'm exhausted- but he did get angry when I told him he was trying to persuade me that what my daughter is saying-( she is scared of her teachers, doesn't feel safe in class) was NOT HAPPENING- because he is so charming & good looking you kind of just go into a trance when he talks & accepts whatever he says- but today I was seeing through his charm & who he really was & was calling him out on it & he did not like that one bit-
So why do we continue to attract Narcs if we've been seriously abused our whole life by them- ? Is it the energy we give off?-( I heard this)- or are we just more easily able to recognise them & they are everywhere? 😭
My poor daughter I really don't know what to do for her- stay or go?😭🌺👸🏻💖
