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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Stronger then you know @Shaz51 💕💕

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Yes that would have been hard (& sad) for you @Shaz51

Living in your childhood house, after your father had passed away.

My childhood house has now been sold - my Dad lived in it until soon before he passed away, 4 years ago.

Adge

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Lots of love my amazing friend @Shaz51 im so honoured to support you through that time and i feel we have such a close bond now, you are a life long friend to me. the memories will always be there, but time helps you move forward.

lots of hugs

Jacques

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thank you @Jacques

Hello @Adge , @outlander , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Jacques , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @Bunniekins , @Determined

mum has been home one day from the hospital and feeling very tired and not wanting to eat

doctor tomorrow for redressing wound, mum has now a infection

and i have my fasting blood test tomorrow

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Hi @Shaz51 ... so there's been no slowing down today for you then Shaz.

If your Mum has an infection, that will be making her feel tired and not wanting to eat.

Is it her arm which is infected, or is there some other infection?

Hope your blood test is nice and early, so you can get back and have a late breakfast.

Any further talk about moving into your Mums place? Any time frame discussed?

Sherry 💕

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yes @Former-Member , i think it is her arm that is infected , on Ab`s now

no future talk yet about moving in yet , mum still loves her indepenence

sooo dropping in a few times a day at the moment

how are you my friend xxxx

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How far do you live from your Mum @Shaz51 ?

Thanks for asking @Shaz51 💜 ... I am really struggling right now .. Hubby unwell. Worried about my dad who saw his GP today and needs some cardiac tests. Ive hurt my back and in a fair bit of pain in lower back and leg. And anniversay day fast approaching for me and I seem to be in a constant state of hyper-arousal. Im dead tired and physically and mentally exhausted.

Sorry @Shaz51 .. you probably regret asking me now. 😞

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you probably regret asking me now.-------- never ever my awesome friend @Former-Member

praying for you and sitting with you every day xoxo

it is good to have someone to talk too , even though we are soo far from each other , I feel we are closer because we can talk

hope your back feels better soon xx

my kidney area is not very happy today

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@Former-Member, have you taken something for the pain xxx

have you eaten tonight

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Yes to both @Shaz51 👍

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