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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Shaz51 xx

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@Shaz51 🧡🧡

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hello @outlander , @eth , @Owlunar , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Former-Member , @Bunniekins , @Smc , @Adge , @Mrsjones ,

ammm my family over reacts about everything

my Mil and Family inlaws under reacts

soo confusing and I told mr shaz and he said " If I am not working mr shaz is not working " and

if mr shaz is not working , then I am not working "

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@Shaz51

Don't know about you but overreaction feels a bit like people are interfering but under reaction feels like they don't care.

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@Shaz51 only you can decide on what's best for you and Mr Shaz regarding whether to keep working or not. Maybe write a list of pros and cons for yourself and see which one carries the most weight.

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hello @outlander , @eth , @Dec , @Appleblossom , @Darcy , @Determined , @Sherry , @greenpea , @Smc , @Adge , @Mrsjones ,

we worked this morning

having dinner with 2 SIL`s and MIL tonight for mr shaz`s birthday

we weeding mum`s garden has really fallen backwards

so I had a look around for a gardener ------- ohh wow the prices -- crazy , looks like we might have to make some time for gardening ourselves

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hello @outlander , @eth , @Dec , @Appleblossom , @Darcy , @Determined , @Sherry , @greenpea , @Smc , @Adge , @Mrsjones ,, @Faith-and-Hope

a very nice night last night -- chineses for mr shaz`s birthday

church this morning

food shopping for us and mum and extra little jobs

now going to MIL`s for roast meal -- birthday present from mother MIL to son ( mr shaz

and 3 SIL`S

we are doing mum gardening next weekk xx

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Hello All.
@Shaz51, our church had a bit of a special occasion morning this week, so the after church cuppa was accompanied by some nicer choices than the usual bikkies. Not that I've got anything against a nice Scotch Finger, but a Honey Joy instead... nyum. 🙂
Yes, I'm a big kid at heart.

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Enjoy @Shaz51

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well today has been a really mixedup day

we cleaned one house and while mr shaz was mowing a lawn

I did my mum`s house

when mr shaz came back he was sooo exhausted , I wondered if he had heat stroke . soo we had the afternoon off

got myself booked in for a diabetes eye check

had a utrasound last week and a fasting blood tests

all will be sent to my endocrinologist and kidney specialist

wondering what the specialists might say ??

mum has a appt next week

@Former-Member, @Smc , @eth , @outlander , @Owlunar , @Appleblossom , @Jacques , @Determined , @Bunniekins , @Faith-and-Hope

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