Not sure what to do !!!

With my mum @Former-Member as they say she is not bad enough xx

A lot has happened with your mum in last 12+ months @Shaz51 , plus she is another year older. I know you do more for her now, than you did before.

very true my @Former-Member

how are you tonigh my darling friend xxx

Im all over the place @Shaz51 I just dont know any more.

ohhh @Former-Member , hugs my darling xoxo

pease chat if you want too xxx

Hello @outlander , @Owlunar , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member

mr shaz is looking forward to cutting back next year after our holiday , soo it will be totally up to me

I have made my first doctors appt on the friday the 3th January xx

@Shaz51 Hey my sister you cannot take on any more work. Very concerned about you. Love peaxxx

Hi @Shaz51 and @Bunniekins

I agree with the Pea Shaz - it's okay for Mr Shaz to work less but what about you?

You are doing do much for your mother and Mr Shaz and I read some of the above posts that you don't qualify for the Carer's Pension - which seems wrong as you are caring for two people with different issues and your own health isn't good either

idk either because I was alone with no income when I got onto disability a long time ago now - could you and Mr Shaz both go onto disability - I think Mr Shaz is only 60 and he can go onto the DSP if there is enough reason but he's too young to retire

It seems you are the sticktoitivity in your family holding it all together

But I am glad you are having a break - and I am sure you will be looking forward to it

Sending hugs Shaz

Dec

I think Mr Shaz is only 60 and he can go onto the DSP-- a very good point my second mum @Owlunar , he wants nothing to do with centrelink

which makes it hard

but I said we can cut back without going to centrelink

yes having 5 days away from boxing day which will be nice xx

love your hugs my @Owlunar

sometimes I just don`t know what to do !!!!

going to talk to my doctor in January

and then i see the endocinlogist and kidney specialist in february

want to ring this week but it is christmas holidays

@Bunniekins, @outlander , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Smc , @Determined , @Sophie1 , @Appleblossom , @Jacques

hellooo and Hugs @Owlunar , @Bunniekins , @outlander , @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Smc , @Adge , @Appleblossom , @PeppiPatty , @Jacques , @Mrsjones , @eth

we are back home

5 nights away , ready for work --- aha ha no way

got bad news about my uncle today

mum is so upset about her brother

mum wants to go before her brother and 2 sisters , she has lost so many before her

worried about her xxxx