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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Former-Member Hey Sherry xxx:)

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Morning @Shaz51 @Bunniekins

Waves to @Former-Member @Owlunar @outlander

Sherry

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@Former-Member. @Bunniekins , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Owlunar

today we have had soo my changes that is has raised mr shaz`s anxiety up high , the poor darling

so with cleaning mum`s house and could not do 2 mowing jobs and me at the doctors for 2 hours with mum and

then my 2 cousins came in for morning tea

@Bunniekins we are having 5 days away and 8 days holiday xoxo

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@Shaz51

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You are having a busy time @Shaz51 and no wonder Mr Shaz has sky-high anxiety

I'm glad you are having time off and a week away - I wish both of you a really peaceful time - I know Mr Shaz will be anxious about something and I understand - it's tough on you too

Thinking of you though and hope you can get through Christmas without too many surprises

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Thank you my second mum @Owlunar

Mum said she will be OK for 5 days we are away xx xxxx

Fingers crossed that there won't be any cyclones xxc

Today I have booked a weekend away for Mr shaz's 60 th

@outlander , @Former-Member , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member xx

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Yes today Mr shaz wants to cut back on work @Owlunar , @outlander , @Former-Member , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member

He is worried about my physical problems xxxx

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I think that sounds like a very good idea @Shaz51 . I too am concerned about your overall health, especially given your work is very physically demanding.

Have you done anything more about applying for carer payment and/or allowance for either your mum or Mr Shaz?

Sherry

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My application was rejected last year @Former-Member soo wondering weather to try again xx

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Was that for your mum or Mr Shaz @Shaz51 ?

I would say its worth another try, for both or either. Certainly your myms circumstances have changed in past 12+ months, and possibly Mr Shaz too. Was it the carer payment or carer allowance that you applied for last year? If you dont qualify for the payment, its possible you could still qualify for the allowance.

@Former-Member may know more about that, as she has a good grasp on all that stuff.

Sherry

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