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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Appleblossom, @Former-Member

Mr shaz wants to turn the gardens into lawn

mum wants more colour xxx

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will have to make a gp appt @Former-Member

or ring my endocrinologist , kidney specialist about it xx

yes visitors have gone home

but we went and spent the afternoon with 2 SIL and BIL before they go back to their homes xx

@Appleblossom, @outlander , @Sophie1 , @Owlunar , @Former-Member

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Sounds like poor Mr Shaz is turning himself into an automaton. Repeat, mow, repeat repeat.

He can do better with himself cant he?

Without it being an infamous MIL squabble.

@Shaz51

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Whoops @Shaz51

Mr Shaz is on about turning the gardens into grass again 😤

It's still your. Mother's garden - her choice

Grrrrrrrr 😡 lawns use up too much water and Mum liles the colours

Sorry Shaz

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there is nothing to be sorry about my second mum @Owlunar

mum was good yesterday and is looking forward to being here when she is a 100

i am smiling

but poor mr shaz - ha ha

I am have lots of pains in my legs and feet today and my feet are puffy

@Appleblossom. @Former-Member , @outlander , @Sophie1 , @Former-Member

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Hi @Shaz51

I'm just sorry you have Mr Shaz being Mr Shaz - always anxious and making plans that won't work - ye-ah :face_with_rolling_eyes:

I'm glad your mum had a good day and looks forward to being 100 - maybe she will - one day at a time like the rest of us

Pain in your legs and puffy feet 🤔 sounds uncomfortable - could that be working in the heat and fluid retention

Best thoughts from your second Mum

Dec 🦉

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Not sure if is the diabetes or the kidney disease that is causing the puffy legs @Owlunar xx

But resting now with my legs up

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@Owlunar, @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Sophie1 , @Bunniekins , @eth , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Adge , @Smc , @Mrsjones , @frog , @Former-Member

my cousin has arrived in town and wants me to go to a "goose Raffle " with her on sunday

talked to mum on the phone and she wants me to go as i don`t go anywhere

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Hi @Shaz51 pardon my ignorance but I dk what a "goose raffle" is.

Whatever it is, I hope you are doing ok this evening.

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@frog there are over 100 prizes to win and if you have the right number you win that prize xx

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