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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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So long as you're also taking plenty of breaks @Shaz51 😉

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Hoping Mr Shaz feels better after a sleep @Shaz51 🙂🌺

how’s your afternoon? I hope the rain has finally cleared up.
Hopefully too Centrelink will be helpful for you 🙂💜

I haven’t heard back about assessments from my end just yet, however if/when I do, I’ll post for you 🙂🌺

Thanks heaps - I really appreciate the encouragement Shaz 🙌🏻🤗🌺

All the best on Wednesday..is that GP or kidney specialist?
I hope it goes well for you💜🙂🌺🫂

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Got fingers crossed 🤞 for you @Former-Member

Yes Mr shaz is making us a cuppa coffee ☕️ now 😀

They say the rain 🌧 is coming back on Wednesday

Just the Gp this week

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Thanks @Shaz51 💜🌺🙂

Cuppa sounds very nice right now ☺️

I hope the rain isn’t too heavy on Wednesday 🙂

Good luck at the GP, and I hope you’re doing ok 🌺🙂

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@Shaz51 , how are you and Mr Shaz? I am so glad that Mr Shaz has decided to get an official diagnosis. I know how it feels to have a name to all the traits and behaviour. When my husband finally got diagnosed with complex-PTSD it all made sense.

I believe Mr Shaz will be OK and together the both of you will work it out. You are a pillar of strength and Mr Shaz is grateful for it, I'm sure.

Please keep us updated.

Progress however slow is still progress.

Sending you both love and healing ❤️

Many hugs xx

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Thank you 😊 @Healandlove

Yes his diagnosis sounds soo right , we now think S2 has ASD too as well

The 3 sins were all diagnosed with Adhd when young

Nearly sure D1 has something 🤔

Sending you hugs ❤️ too

@RiverSeal , @Emelia8 , @Jynx , @Former-Member

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@Shaz51 💞

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@Shaz51 , 🫂❤️. Knowledge changes everything. Sending you love and a lovely cup of tea ☕️🍰

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I am experiencing lots of emotions this afternoon, anger, sadness, devastated 💔, unloved , annoyed

Found out on social media that my cousin from Brisbane flew up and spent 2 days with my aunty who is mum's sister inlaw who also get flowers but not me ,

Never came half an hour drive away to see me ( as his aunty-- my mum passed away 😢)

What did I do wrong -- not cry enough , not whine enough!!!!

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Awwwww, that's so hard to hear @Shaz51

Remember our PGC about Responding to Rejection? Maybe it's not so much your issue, but their issue?

Would you consider putting it on the table and asking her?

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