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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Adge Hey Adge just wanted to wish you well for tomorrow with your date. It is very exciting :)xx

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yes @Bunniekins , @Adge , mum will be happy about the purred meal , vey true my awesome frinds xoxox

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Thank you very much @Bunniekins

It's great, having you & other forum people excited for me.

It feels like I have my own "Fan club", backing me up (from behind).

Trust me, I need the enthusiam.

The wheels fell off my Dating Vehicle (car) several years ago, due to rejections.

I stopped trying to meet anyone (was dissilusioned).

Adge

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Some of my disabled clients can only eat purred foods @Shaz51

Theirs always smells very nice & tasty, regardless of appearance.

Adge

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@Adge Well you are doing the right thing getting out there and giving dating a go. You cannot do more than that 🙂 Like my son2 who was rejected by this girl at a disco he said he is not going to give up and that is the right attitude to take 🙂

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Like my son2 who was rejected by this girl at a disco he said he is not going to give up and that is the right attitude to take ----- yaaa way to go Son2 @Bunniekins , please tell Son 2 that I told him not to give up xoxo

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That sounds like very good, supportive parenting (from you) @Bunniekins

What a great attitude.

My Mum is not like that.

In Mum's opinion, everything is too hard (or anxiety-provoking) - so give up on it.

Adge

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@Shaz51 I will Shaz51. He had actually bought her a lil box of chocolates. We had wrapped them up and he took them over to her and she didn't even take them from him (in her defence though she is disabled too and had friends with her so was probably taken aback .... maybe a bit embarrassed ....). So the chocolates have been sitting in the fridge till next disco this coming Friday for him to try again :).

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tell him never give up my friend @Bunniekins , there is someone there for son2 xoxo

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@Shaz51 @Adge Thank you both xxx I try I really do 🙂

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