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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Oh @Shaz51 my dear friend, you will be in my thoughts tomorrow and I will have my fingers crossed everything comes back fine.

Hugs

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thanks @Jacques , hugs and love to you too , how are you this week

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Sending love @Shaz51 Keep us posted on the doctor visit tomorrow, you and mum will be in our thoughts

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im ok @Shaz51 a little low this week, im emotionall exhausted, i think having a very busy two weeks has taken its toll. i will be ok though.

hugs my friend, please say hello to Mr Shaz from me 🙂

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hello @Jacques , @Ali11 , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Owlunar , @Smc

today I did lots of jobs around mum`s house today , inside and outside

Mum used her electric buggy for the first time this year to go down to the hairdressers

I went to the doctors and she has ordered blood tests for me and will send them to the kidney specialist and the Endocrinologist -- the appt for blood test next week

blood pressure was normal today

but I asked about my aches and pains and tireness and she said there is nothing i can do about that

mr shaz did a job this afternoon which he has not done for years for someone --- he replied " now he know why we gave these kinda jobs away years ago "

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Sounds like a busy day @Shaz51, glad the blood pressure was normal. Mum must've had quite an adventure venturing out on the buggy Haha, sometimes we need a reminder, Mr Shaz won't be saying yes to that type of job for another while, do you think?

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very true @Ali11 , now he knows why i keep saying no , but he does not like to upset people xx

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sounds like a busy day @Shaz51
i hope all your blodds come back good too.
i wonder if there is a suppliment such as magnesium that could help with your aches and pains and tiredness. This is definently not medical advice and i would reccomend you speak to your gp about these sorts of options but i felt a little more energetic and less achy in my muscles while i was taking magnesium powder.
Essential oils may help as well as like a rub version for your muscles- i would suggest speaking to a eseential oil consultant to see which ones they suggest might work for in like a roller blend or a rub.

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Learning to say no is a skill in itself @Shaz51, you have to value your time

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well @Ali11 @outlander , @Jacques , @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @Determined , @Smc , @Owlunar

mum`s specialist has rang me today and has cancelled everything until mum has another bowel obsruction @Adge

feelinf weird about this but this is what mum wants

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