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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Aww hugs to you @Dimity ❤❤

And thank you @tyme xx

Yes tomorrow is a new day

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I'll definitely check-in again with you tomorrow @Shaz51 .

We care for you deeply, and feel what you are going through.

Holding your hand, tyme

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Ohh very shaken up tonight as we were nearly involved in 2 separate accidents because of a truck 😓😓

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Ohh @Dimity , it was scary , we were nearly pushed off the highway because of him

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Hugs @Shaz51 it sounds very frightening for you and mr shaz. So glad you're OK.

It's hard to stop thinking about a near-miss sometimes, it's like a loop on repeat.

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Thank you @Dimity

Nearly 2 accidents because of the truck xx

Spoke to mum today , she is OK but I don't think she will be well enough to come home again

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I'm very glad you caught up with her @Shaz51 . Yes you've been thinking for a while that she'll need to have continuing care. It seems very complicated to be between 3 different hospitals all with different teams and waiting lists but there's not much you can do, other than trust and hope... I hope she's well in herself and feeling a bit better.

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How scary @Shaz51

@I’m so glad you and hubby are ok although I can imagine you’d be shaken up. So scary.
pls take care xxxooo

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Thank you my sister @BlueBay xx

Yes it will be good for us and for mum to be in one hospital place @Dimity , @tyme

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Update for mum
She was to be transferred to a hospital 30kms today
But just now she has been tested postive for covid19
Now she has to stay in her room for isolation for a week in big hospital 60kms
Awwwwww

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