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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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It is hard @Jacques but mum has a alarm alert that she wears that she presses if she has another fall

And then it rings the ambulance and me xxx

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Gosh @Shaz51 that's difficult for you. And with so little warning. I hope you can activate the aged care plan asap and you don't have to soldier on by yourself. I guess it's good if your mum is feeling better in herself but you and mr shaz need TLC too. Love to you all, your mum probably feels like celebrating and I hope you have enough sense of humour to ride it out.

Here for you, keep us posted .

Love, Dimity

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Oh no!!! @Shaz51 I feel for you so much.
pls take care of yourself and me Shaz too.
thinking of you lovely xxxooo

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Hello and hugs @BlueBay , @Dimity xx

Thank you

Yes Mr shaz is having restless nights and dreams and being tired though the day xx @Former-Member , @tyme , @Former-Member

And I am not sleeping well at night

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That’s not good sis @Shaz51

lack of sleep affects us so much

I hope you and hubby can get a good night sleep tonight xxxx

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Ohh my poor mum , in soo much pain today in hospital, soo sad 😪

They thought the pain was from her Rheumatoid arthritis and osteo in her hip which was causing it

They did a xray this afternoon and now she has a broken right hip 😪

Wish I could text you all but I amm not feeling too good , feeling soo sad , and now waiting to see what will be done

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Oh @Shaz51 I'm so sorry to hear. At least they have found the issue now and can hopefully treat your Mum quickly. I hope things ease for her now. We are here, please keep us updated on how you're doing.

Sending you hugs 💝

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Thank you @Paperdaisy

Hope soo too

Just feel like I have been hit by a truck

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Thinking of you @Shaz51 and so much that you are contending with.

A big warm heart for you all

Take care

your friend Sophia

💜

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Thank you my @Sophia1

Mum broke her left hip 3 years ago and now her right hip

Not sure what they will do as mum is 91

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