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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

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unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Hugs @Shaz51 ,

How is your mum? Do you think she'll be able to manage at home?

I am concerned about your health and Mr Shaz. Please take care at this time.

Do you have numbers you can contact if Mum is in need? It just sounds so hard to be left without any supports while you are working.

Thinking of you,

tyme

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That doesn't sound right @Shaz51 😞

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Mum says she does not need other support services

Trouble is in the rural areas, help is very limited and not when you need them

I am tired , not sleeping well , up soo many times at night

Saw the OT today and she suggested things including a place in the waiting list for a permanent bed in the hospital

Mum is thinking she is doing well @tyme

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I know @StuF ❤

Mum kept pestering the doctor and nurses until they gave in an rang me to come pick her up @tyme

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Oh @Shaz51

I wish I could offer more than virtual hugs and support!

It must be so hard

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Thank you for your support my awesome friend @StuF xx

How are you going today

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Thank you @Former-Member ❤❤

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I'm going ok thanks @Shaz51

Keeping out of mischief...mostly!

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@Shaz51

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oh my dear @Shaz51 hugs my dear friend, it is so so hard caring for our family members, i hope she can be carful while you are away working. please don't ever feel guilty we have our own needs too.

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