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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Th8nkin got tou @Shaz51

Trust the.home visit goes.aa.well.as it can today. 🙏

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How are things @Shaz51 ? I hope your needs and concerns will be heard.

tyme

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Hello @tyme , @TideisTurning , @hanami , @Former-Member , @moderator

Thanks @tyme , no not all but the OT said to ring her about anything

The OT and the physio came for a home inspection this afternoon

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Thank you @Former-Member and @Emelia8 for your support

Lots of different advice from family members and mum's sisters and sister in law

Mr shaz is a great support and I know which option he would like and it would be a step to recovery for him

It is just hard xx

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Yes I can imagine its very hard @Shaz51 . 💖 The important things to temember though, is that your Mum is receiving the best possible care and is therefore kept safe. And just as important @Shaz51 is your own wellbeing. You need to keep in mind your own (not insignificant) health challenges. I know your Mum may be unhappy with some of your future decisions, but just keep reassuring her how much you love her. That any decisions are made with her best interests in mind. And that she will always see you regularly, irrespective of where she is at.

Emelia ♥

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It is just hard @Shaz51 💞 You are doing an amazing job getting through it, but that doesn’t make it any less hard ….. hugs n hugs 💐

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Thinking of you @Shaz51 ♥️ Xxoo

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@tyme

Amm feeling soo sad

Feels like we are not part of my inlaw's family , feeling sad for my Mr shaz

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HI @Shaz51 ,

I'm sorry to hear the deep sadness you are feeling, come through. So much so, I feel it.

Sorry, I'm not in the loop. I apologise if you have posted it elsewhere on the forums. What's happening for you today/tonight?

I'm listening,

tyme

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Have not posted anywhere yet my @tyme

Just feeling sad for Mr shaz and I are not in the know of what the family are doing, always last to know

It is soo hard

My mum is still in hospital after her fall , she might be home next week maybe , 2 weeks after her fall

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