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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Shaz51

What a week.

Even when you are expecting it and there will be a release from pain, the finality is still shocking.

Boquet for you uncle Shaz

Loved that poem @Jacques

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Lots of love and hugs @Shaz51

💙💙🤗🤗💙💙

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My condolences to you snd your family @Shaz51

It’s so sad to lose two close family members in a week

sending you lots of love snd hugs my friend

xxxooo

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Hello @BlueBay , @Eve7 , @Appleblossom , @Daisydreamer , @Dimity , @Faith-and-Hope , @Emelia8 , @Jacques , @Adge , @Zoe7 , @Former-Member , @moderator , @tyme , @StuF , @Bunniekins , @Determined , @outlander, @Anastasia , @TideisTurning , @hanami

Today my mum had a fall

The ambulance took her to the hospital

Now waiting as she is having scans and xrays

Waiting for a phone call from the hospital

Waiting is soooooo hard

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Oh no @Shaz51 that’s terrible news. I hope your mum is ok. Waiting is horrible my sis I know.
thinking of you all.
🙏♥️

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Oh @Shaz51 your poor mum. I hope she didn't break any bones. Waiting for news is hard I know but she's where she'll get the best care. My dad had several emergency hospital admissions in his 90s, it's sad and worrying but sending you hugs and hoping it works out OK. Take care.

Dimity

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Thank you my sister @BlueBay

I just rang the hospital and she is not back yet 😪

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Thank you @Dimity xx

Yes waiting is hard not knowing but she is in the best place at the moment

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oh @Shaz51 my dear friend, my mum had a fall 2 weeks ago, i know the anxiety and heartache you are going through, best wishes for your mum i hope it is just bruising and nothing broken. lots of hugs my friend

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Me too my @Jacques ❤❤❤

Just have to wait and see when they bring her back to the hospital xx

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