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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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See how he goes, I know reducing mess made me really anxious from withdrawals, not sure how Mr shaz will go, I hope you can both make your decision, if he feels he can't cope see another doctor.

I am OK, finished Reno on the sun room today it looks nice.

Hey that is awesome I have had my booster too. Glad you guys have tried to protect yourselves.

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Ohh lovely on the sun room , love to see a photo my brother @Jacques

Yes any changes in anything makes Mr shaz anxious

That is why we are thinking of not rebuilding because of the stress

@tyme , @Owlunar , @Zoe7 , @BlueBay

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 new ceiling, batons painted throughout, and new blinds. Just waiting on the rest of the blinds across the front.

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oh @Shaz51 this is so hard. I can imagine that building would cause stress. So what will you do?
hugs sis cxxooo

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Ohh wow my brother @Jacques , soo wonderful, soo proud of you

@BlueBay my sister, we are going to stay at mum's to look after her

See what happens later xxx

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@BlueBay, @Jacques , @tyme , @Owlunar , @Zoe7 , @Jynx , @Faith-and-Hope , @TAB , @StuF , @Determined , @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Emelia8

what a day , crazy , every couple of days mum has a bad day and seems to take it out on me -- can not do anything right and I do nothing for her , soo sad to see and hear this

my mr shaz stands up for me , tomorrow will be fine again xxxx until next time

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Awww @Shaz51

Massive hugs your way

You do so much

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thank you @StuF , it just makes my mr shaz soo upset which does not help xx

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@Shaz51 maybe according to your mum you're not doing anything right, but why is her opinion the correct one? Did you do right by your own values?

Rough day indeed, hope the evening is a little better 💜

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oh I t remember those times with my MIL

try not to take it to heart sis @Shaz51

it’s not her it’s her dementia 😥😥

hugs snd care xxxooo

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