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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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will know on tuesday with one kidney appoinment @Snowie xxoxo

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Thinking of you @Shaz51 ❤

You do so much for everyone, need to look after shaz also.

Trust all goes well for you with your tests.

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Awwwww just had a quote by my mum tonight --- ( out of sight, out of mind) what a dig 😟😟 @Former-Member , @Determined , @Snowie , @Anastasia , @Smc , @Emelia8

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😔 dear @Shaz51 hugs and more hugs. You are doing a wonderful job juggling everything. My Dad is saying hurtful words to Mum at present. I think when they lose control it builds anger and they lash out. She loves you Shaz 💕

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very true my sister @Anastasia

today my mum had a moment of a unusally vision while having morning tea which scared her sister and myself

soo I think I need to talk to a doctor even though mum will reject to it

she needs something else to help her xoxo

@Determined, @Snowie , @Smc , @Emelia8 , @Faith-and-Hope , @Scoo , @Adge , @Peri , @Former-Member -- ( is there a peer worker who is going through a love one with dementia would to freat to hear from xxxx

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feeling sooo had it today as my dear mum had hallucinations during morning tea n front of her sister
will have to make a doctors appt for her which she will hate
i amm feeling sooo bad @Emelia8 , @Smc , @Snowie , @Determined , @Anastasia

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Dear @Shaz51 , you have nothing to feel Bad about, not for yourself. But what you are having to watch your dear mother for is awful. You are doing things to help your mother and help yourself to cope with all these changes,. Taking on this role is stressful and you need to give yourself a break, be kind to yourself. Your mother is gifted to have a loving daughter, she must have been a wonderful mother

peri.

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Hugs @Shaz51 . How are you?

Any updates re kidneys?

Take care hun,

BPDSurvivor

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Hello my friends @BPDSurvivor , @Peri , @Anastasia , @Determined , @Snowie , @Emelia8 , @Bunniekins , @frog , @ShiningStar , @Jynx , @Jacques , @Owlunar , @BlueBay

After my scare on Tuesday, we have changed our plans for the future

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gentle hugs my friend, it is so hard when our parents get old, im dreading it with my mum as she ages, im glad you are reevaluating things, have you thought about getting some help in to help you as you are not in good health either, there is a new service called mable, might be worth a look @Shaz51

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