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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Ohhhh hugs @Shaz51

Change is challenging. I've made you a hot choccy so you can put your tired feet up 💞

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hot choccy so you can put your tired feet up , thank you @Anastasia

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@Shaz51, when my Mum and Dad went into aged care, we spent so much time trying to track down things that Mum asked for. She'd tell us something was in such-and-such a place, but it wasn't there... some things we eventually found a year or two after she asked.
So I'm guessing you'll have the same back and forward with your Mum for a while, and even if its only moving things from one part of her home to another, it can still be wearing trying to track things down.
Hope she still feels "at home" with the new setup?

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hello @Smc

yes it is a bit tiring moving things around and then having to move things again

mum has moved into her new room -- using her own time

downstairs we have made the bedroom , next to the bedroom is the laurdry which we made into a kitchen and then there is the bathroom and toilet

ha ha --- today we just got home and she has moved the small things , plates, cups , sugar , tea ect into her bedroom

she wants me to put the jug, microwave, and fridge in her new bedroom and it will not fit

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@Shaz51 sounds like your mum has a good set up with you hon.

I hope you are going ok 💕💕💕

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yes a nice setup @Snowie , but mum wants to keep changing it all the time

worked this morning , resting this afternoon

how are you xx

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Glad you are resting this afternoon @Shaz51

Hopefully you can get some time to yourself.

I am going ok thanks

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Oh hugs @Shaz51 it is exhausting!

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hello and hugs @Zoe7 , @Faith-and-Hope , @Eve7 , @Anastasia , @Emelia8 , @Snowie
love the picture @Anastasia that you put on the other thread
anniversary of the fire yesterday
for the next few weeks I have appointments with a few specialists for myself
having a lot of different blood tests taken this time --- must be getting closer to diaylisis -- hope not yet
apart from doctors for my mum and
the doctor that saw mr shaz is keeping check ups on him ---- seems sooo strange to have someone following up to see how he is going

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Hoping all goes well for you hon @Shaz51

How has your day been?

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