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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Is meals on wheels 7 days/wk or just week days @Shaz51

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3 days a week @Former-Member

and she has been cooking on the other nights and she is hinting i find some recipes that I can puree for her

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Good to hear she's feeling a little better @Shaz51, hope you've enjoyed your day

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thanks @Ali11 , she has a alarm alert at home too

in my mind I am wondering how long it will be before she goes back into hospital , tomorrow , next week , 2 weeks time xx

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glad shes getting meals on wheels @Shaz51 and trying to help herself but i hope she doesnt push to much.

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yes I agree @outlander , it wont do her any good if she does too much , soo will keep doing most things for her xoxo

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hopefully she listens @Shaz51 but i bet its a bit of relief to not have to do everything every day and that she can manage some things on her own. hopefully the transition team put some other things in place too...

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well @outlander , @Ali11 , @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Adge , @Bunniekins , @Determined , @Appleblossom

dropped in to see mum this afternoon and she tells me ;

1) she went down town in her electric scooter

2) she got someone in to remove one of her gardens

she said she has been tired all day today

I got a phone call from the big hospital about mum , and keeping me up to date with everything -- aaaahhhhhh

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Lovely to get communication from the hospital @Shaz51.

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yes it is @Former-Member , need more of it

they said that mum will need to do a couple of tests before anything else , will do them in june -- this month

I said ," does she need to do these tests , she did them when she was in hospital"

ohhhhhh We will check that out --- aarrrggggg

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