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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Mixed emotions @Shaz51 perhaps a bit of grief that neither you or Mum can keep up with the garden combined with relief that you can get some help.

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Very true @Former-Member ❤

And my hips and legs hurt Sooo much when I do gardening @Emelia8 , @Anastasia @Bunniekins , @Smc

No not yet @Emelia8 , waiting for the specialist to send out the forms

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@Shaz51 Yeah my back really hurts when I pull weeds. Ouch!

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we finished work at 2pm today and we are having 4 days off , yaaaaaaa


Mr shaz wants to go do some photos tomorrow , so we will go for a drive
have told mum but she did not say anything , soo feeling a bit ohhhhh leaving her


a lady who does meals on wheels came yesterday to repot mums plants
she spent 3 hours soo far and is going to come back on a regular basis to help us , awwwww and she did not want any payment for it
will have to buy her something


waiting for the specialist to send me new blood forms
might see the doctor next weeke as i am starting to eat osteo paracetamol like lollies which is not good

@Bunniekins, @Former-Member , @Emelia8 , @Anastasia , @Smc , @Adge , @Owlunar , @Appleblossom , @Determined

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@Shaz51 4 days off!! will you try and sleep in?

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Ha ha love too my sister xoxo @Bunniekins

But tomorrow Mr shaz wants to go for a drive somewhere to take some photos

How are you today xx

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@Shaz51 paranoia is high today but will improve. Is very much up and down atm. I cannot seriously hurt myself so all is good. Will be seeing ex tomorrow so that will be a bright spot and will have some dinner with him to celebrate Easter. I hope the weather is good for your photo shoot tomorrow my sister 🙂

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Lovely @Bunniekins Hugs

@Shaz51 eating them like lollies.... oh oh ... stay safe my friend.

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Squishy hugs @Bunniekins take care my friend

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@Appleblossom Hugs right back at you Apple xxx

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