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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Shaz51 well to be honest it was my 21 year old male support worker who did the hard parts. I mainly stood back and directed :Dxx

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Very good my sister xoxo @Bunniekins 🤣😂:ok_hand:👍

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Not sure what happened this afternoon and why !!!!

but I cried , dont know why

Mum loves her gardens and can not garden any more , we tried hard to keep it tidy but in between work , caring for mum and mr shaz MI , and my physical problems finding it hard to keep up

any way I have been ringing around and no one comes out here and they dont do weeding

well could not believe it when i got home at lunch and mum said a Lady who delivered the" Meals on Wheels "

said she will do the gardening and repot all the pot plants

I was happy, sad all the same time

@Bunniekins, @Former-Member , @Adge , @Emelia8 , @Anastasia , @Owlunar , @Appleblossom

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@Shaz51. I think I get it, but don't quite know how to put it in words either.

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Yes true @Smc , it felt strange but now after 2 cups of coffee, I went and got all the equipment ready for the gardening lady on Wednesday

Mr shaz was a bit worried but after a few cuddles

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@Shaz51weeding is hard work what a kind person the Meals on Wheels lady is :D. Maybe a call to her manager singing her praise is in order as I am sure many wouldnt make the offer. xxx

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I know my sister xoxo @Bunniekins

Mum can't remember her name but lucky she picked Wednesday as I am home in the morning

She specializes in plants and said to mum that her plants need repoting

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@Shaz51 People can be so kind :). Then again you are a kind person Shaz51. Kind attracts kind. Love peaxxx

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This makes me teary too @Shaz51

Thank goodness there are some angels in this world 🙏💞

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Thats lovely @Shaz51 ... it restores faith in basic human kindness. There are some wonderful people in this world, and I'm so pleased that one of them has found you .... and your Mum. You deserve every bit of help you are able to get, because you do so much for so many others. Love and a big hug beautiful.

I think you needed to be retested with some blood tests last week? Something went wrong with previous ones if I recall correctly. Have you had the follow up tests done, and if so, how did that go?

Emelia 🌸🌼🌹

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