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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@outlander

mum has been in hospital for nearly 3 weeks now

been going up everyday except for the week we were away

she looked soooo tired this morning at lunch time

not letting her have a shower until she is more awake because she might fall asleep and fall in the shower

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im sorry your mums not well @Shaz51 i hope she starts to feel better soon. do they know whats wrong with her?

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yes @outlander , reoccuring bowel obrustions which are not getting better , they may have to do another bowel surgery

she does not seem to be getting better this time , the hospital is the best place for her to be but she wants to go home

soo much is up in the air at the moment xx

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doesnt sound very pleasant @Shaz51 i hope they can help her soon. yes your right, hospital does sound like the best place for her right now.

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Hello @outlander , @Ali11 , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Adge , @Smc

mum is back home again , she is trying to cancell her appt tomorrow with the bowel specialist

the Doctor here wants mum to go as it will make a difference to her quilty of life

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Can you suggest to Mum that listening to what doc says does not mean she needs to agree to anything and any benefit vs risk can be considered in light of what they say @Shaz51

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too late , I tried @Former-Member , but mum has cancell again until she feels better in herself , Ohhh around we go again xx

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hope your mum manages to get to that appointment tomorrow @Shaz51 it sounds like she really needs to go

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Sending gentle thoughts your way @Shaz51,.

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no @Former-Member , @outlander , she has made a another appt for a couple monthe time -- she will possibley back in hospital by then

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