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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Mar 2019, 7:17 pm AEDT

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor20 May 2019, 5:03 pm AEST

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For the last time @Shaz51 ?

Will you miss it?

Will you need to do your own or someone else in the family?

I dont miss mowing.

lol it gives me more ground to garden with.

I did it for a long while tho. ratlled me brains around ....bloomin mower ...

Hugs Bella

Glad you are home safe and sound

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Shaz51Senior Contributor20 May 2019, 5:08 pm AEST

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we still have 17 lawns to mow @Appleblossom

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Shaz51Senior Contributor20 May 2019, 5:18 pm AEST

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the doctor is working with the bowel specialist and looks like they might put mum through another bowel surgery @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @outlander , @Ali11 , @Determined , @Former-Member

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DeterminedSenior Contributor20 May 2019, 5:44 pm AEST

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Oh no @Shaz51

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Shaz51Senior Contributor20 May 2019, 5:47 pm AEST

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i know @Determined , but mum is seriously thinking about it , so it will be up to her xxx

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Unknown userMember20 May 2019, 6:02 pm AEST

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Thinking of you @Shaz51

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Ali11Senior Contributor20 May 2019, 7:47 pm AEST

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We need a 'shocked' reaction for those 17 lawns @Shaz51 Sending love to your mum

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Shaz51Senior Contributor20 May 2019, 7:51 pm AEST

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ha ha @Ali11 , we used to do 29 lawns

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Ali11Senior Contributor20 May 2019, 8:14 pm AEST

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*extra strong shocked face* 29... lawns... *speechless* Sounds like that was a good time to invest in some sheep @Shaz51

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Shaz51Senior Contributor23 May 2019, 2:21 pm AEST

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good afternoon @Ali11 , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @Bunniekins , @Former-Member

mum has been in hospital for nearly 3 weeks now

been going up everyday except for the week we were away

she looked soooo tired this morning at lunch time

not letting her have a shower until she is more awake because she might fall asleep and fall

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