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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Shaz51

Can you get a bath in tonight?

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no bath here @Former-Member , @Emelia8

The house we cleaned this morning with no power and water , the owner arrived home to day and rang me up to talk about the housesiter, she stopped taking her meds and she was a mess when we were there

mum has had dinner and a shower

going to wash the dishes now

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So much @Shaz51 !!!!

So sorry hun, thinking of you 🙏💕🤗🌺🌷

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Going to dry the dishes and then a shower @Anastasia , @Former-Member , @Emelia8 , @Mellysmellyelly , @Determined

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💞💞💞 @Shaz51 ....... hugs n hugs Hon ..... that's so tough going. The hospital must have been repeat-dialling the wrong number.

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Are you able to get in a mini self care item tonight @Shaz51?

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I think soo too @Faith-and-Hope , but the nurse kept going and going saying she had the right number and it was all my foult

dont know why , it was sooo upsetting to be called a liar

and it would of been so late , they close the hospital doors at a certain time

the other nurse said mum had a bed and had a good nights sleep

they rang mum`s sister this morning and then would not let her take mum home , arrggggg

mr shaz is having a shower now @Former-Member

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Thank you @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope , @Anastasia , @Emelia8 I am off to bed 🥰❤❤💝💖

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Good night @Shaz51 ... sleep soundly. 💞💤

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@Shaz51 So much for you to deal with my sister I am so sorry you were treated so badly by that nurse - especially as you do everything for everyone and get no respite yourself. Hugs and hugs Hon. Hope you sleep well

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