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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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We in vic blue sky today. maybe u in Qld?

Did u lose much on fire?

Dear me, i can hardly imagine

Hope there are things u like about yr Mum's house 😊

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yes @Mellysmellyelly , i am in far north queensland

our house has to be demolised , lost everything

mum`s house was my grandma`s house

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Boy that alone wld take some dealing with!!! Did u get much support from insurance or community help ????

Love your coffee picture. 😁😁😁I dont expect u to tell me all details ehen u probably have it somewhere else on this forum. U wld be v busy. I don't navigate around here too well yet. But wish you all the best - wish i cld send u stuff u might need but i cant ! 😣

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Very happy to see you my friend xxx @Mellysmellyelly ❤

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Hi Beautiful @Shaz51

wanna chat or shall I sit with you?

Love hugs and completely understanding heart all ready for you xox

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going to write it down here soon my @Anastasia thank you for your hugs

sending some to you too xxoxo

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@Shaz51

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Read your Worry Room post @Shaz51 ... here and listening, and sending lots of love and understanding as well.

Emelia 💞

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hello and thamk you for the hugs @Emelia8 , @Anastasia

the last couple of days have been soo crazy

mum was so unwell on wednesday the she had less balance , sick and could not drink or eat

hospital yesterday and looks like virtego

by afternoon the nurse said we could go home

so we did , then i got a phone call from the doctor that we had to take mum back to hospital

took her back and they did blood tests and put her on the fluid drip

wanted for the hospital to ring to bring mum home but no phone call until today

mr shaz`s rash is increasing

got to the hospital today to pck mum up ( they would not let her sister pick her up )

they think i am mums sister too

the nurse said that she rang me 12 times last night to come ppick mum up but my phone did not ring at all ( calling me a Liar )

well i burst into tears, i even made mum cry as she has never seen me soo upset

The nurse kept going !!!!!!!!!

as the cleaning job today we had no power and no water to clean

soo much going on until i cracked

and then we had to travell 30 kms to sign a form for the house

@Former-Member, @Determined , @Mellysmellyelly , @Faith-and-Hope , @Zoe7 , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Adge , @Former-Member , @Jacques

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Ohhhh poor @Shaz51 ... so much happening, and all at once too.

I hope your Mum is feeling a bit better now, and that Mr Shaz's rash starts to improve.

You may well be right ... carer burnout may well be whats happening.

The nurse was very thoughtless and naughty to make you feel to blame for them not phoning you.

No use saying to you to take some time out ... I know you cant.

But I wish you could get some additional help, at least with your mums needs.

Hopefully you can have a bit of time out for yourself over the weekend.

Has the cyclone gone now? You mentioned you had no power for a while today.

Hugs my friend.

Emelia 🤗💕

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