Not sure what to do !!!

hello @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Bunniekins , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @Ali11 , @Smc , @Determined

at the hospital at the moment with mum , they are going to keep her in for a few days , finally got a bed xxx

Glad to hear you've got the bed @Shaz51 How are you both doing? Did you take some things in with you to keep you entertained?

@Ali11

mr shaz can not handle too much of the hospital , so he went home and I went and got mum`s clothes and then my aunty and my cousin came up to see her xx

glad they are not taking her to the big hospital 60 kms away but in our local hospital

tired now @Ali11

The value of a good local hospital can't be overstated @Shaz51, and having family visit will lift the spirits, so that's great to hear

@outlander. @Ali11 , @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Bunniekins

my aunty and cousin want me to see the doctor to keep mum in hospital while we are away on our holiday

That sounds reasonable @Shaz51 , and I expect would result in less worrying for you while you're away too.

yes I have @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Ali11 , @Owlunar , @Faith-and-Hope

after mr shaz does not really want to go now due to work , customers and mum in hospital

but i am feeling soo unsure about leaving mum , I know she wants me to go but after talking to the doctor today , if she does not improve I am worried that she might have to go to the big hospital , so have to see what happens in the next few day

if she impoves I will ask the doctor if she can keep her in our hospital for the week we are away

but if she need to go to the bigger hospital ????

It's so tough on you @Shaz51

Your Mum needs to be in hospital and you need a holiday and Mr Shaz needs to toughen up a bit and all of that is on your shoulders

Which is why you need a holiday

I think you had a few days away planned a while back and things fell through for various reasons -

Please take the break for yourself Shaz - give yourself time to yourself and recharge your batteries - if they take your Mum to the big hospital she will be okay - it's only for a week - and if Mr Shaz wants to stay home - that's okay too

If you don't take it now when will you

This is your second Mum talking

Dec