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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Hi @Shaz51

Yes I have sent you an email about your post requesting that you edit to to suit the guidelines. Sorry you have not got it yet,

warmest regards

Whitehawk

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Its okay @BlueBay ... honestly. 👍💗

I'm alright, and @Shaz51 has said she is too. No harm done.

There is nothing to be sorry about.

Its important you have the opportunity to talk about such things.

I hope you are okay my friend.

Emelia 💞

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Thank you @Former-Member xx

All good here and sitting with you my sisters @Emelia8 , @BlueBay xoxo

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Thank you @Shaz51 @Emelia8 ❤️❤️

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@Shaz51 💜💜💜

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i have not done my dishes or my washing yet today
our car went to the garage to get the brakes fixed -- can not be fixed today
we did mum's place this morning -- mr shaz helped me
we had lunch at home , it is raining here
and just woke up from a sleep

@Maggie, @BlueBay , @Emelia8 , @Appleblossom , @eth , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Bunniekins , @outlander , @Smc , @Adge

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its raining here too @Shaz51 i hope with the rain itll allow you to rest a little today
well done on getting so much done already

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thanks @outlander , how are you my sister

i never sleep through the day , wow

hope i am not coming down with something

or my body is saying --- Heeeeeyyyy what about me

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You must have needed it @Shaz51

Once upon a time a whole day per week was given over to washing. Now that I dont have lots of people in the house, I am careful about my water use. So that determines when I do dishes and wash. When there is enough to justify a load. If I work in the garden a lot I rewear garden shoes and clothes. My going out clothes are not so useful these days in lockdown. I actually dressed up sometimes for my physio, just because I knew she would like a scarf ... cheers us both up.

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thank you @Appleblossom

yes I think it is nice wearing something nice it makes you feel a bit better too xxx

sitting down relaxing now

still not feeling a 100% but willl get there

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