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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Mar 2019, 7:17 pm AEDT

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Shaz51Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:44 pm AEDT

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Looks like my latest post was deleted for some reason @Emelia8 , @Anastasia , @eth , @Appleblossom , @Smc , @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope , @Bunniekins , @BlueBay

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Emelia8Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:56 pm AEDT

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I read it @Shaz51 💔 and it brought hot angry tears to my eyes knowing what you were subjected to.

I'm so sorry. You never deserved any of that, and certainly none of it was your fault.

Thats really horrible and I am so sorry you were subjected to such abuse.

Gentle understanding hugs coming your way my dear Shaz.

Emelia 💞

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BlueBaySenior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 8:57 pm AEDT

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I read your post @Shaz51 before it got deleted. and I'm very sorry for what you went through. I shouldn't have posted my story

I'm really sorry.
I feel I'm to blame now for triggering you

I am sorry

I should delete my post. It's causing too my psin for others.

hugs @Shaz51 xxx

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Shaz51Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 9:01 pm AEDT

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No @BlueBay , @Emelia8 , I am sharing with you to let you know that I understand xoxo

Soo my sisters it is time to keep on keeping on and for us to be strong and to carry on

Forward together xoxo

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Emelia8Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 9:04 pm AEDT

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No @BlueBay please do not delete your post. Its an important topic to be brought into the open. This stuff should not be hidden. To do so allows it to take a hold and make us feel we are somehow to blame. And that is not the case. Im glad you spoke of it. Yes it brought up a disturbing memory for me, and subsequently for @Shaz51 as well. But I think Shaz would agree with me, that to finally talk about it ... it loses some of the power the incident has over you. So ... thank you Bluebay.

Emelia 🌺

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Shaz51Senior Contributor04 Oct 2020, 9:06 pm AEDT