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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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these men of ours ... I do hope that very soon he will be able to see things from a different perspective. I have found that emphasising the partnership and the teamwork we have whilst acknowledging the differences in the way we handle our emotions and being respectful of these is important.----- very very true @Former-Member

emphasising the partnership and the teamwork we have --- did that this afternoon after finding the right time to talk about things

@Former-Member, @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @eth

all have settled down again

I amm very tired now from the day`s events

@Former-Member, thank you my sister , I am ok

I was concerned because last time it happened , he took himself to the hospital and they kept him there for 2 weeks before letting him home ( I saw him everyday in the city where he was )

soo amm glad that he had the idea of taking the day out in fixing things and mowing the lawn

he is still quiet but a bit more relaxed , we have been watching some shows we taped and 2 cups of coffee

Mr shaz is accident prone and we have had soo many things in the repair shops

Mum rang up this afternoon , and all good again

think we will have leftovers for tonight -- ahhhh

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@Shaz51 thinking of you.

I like @Owlunar s pic. Except often it felt I was the rope. Seems that is the case for you also 😕

Trust yoy can get some rest and things continue to pick up.

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guess it feels like a tug of war--- yes very true @Determined

thinking of you too my friend xx

hope it will be a bit better tomorrow

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Hi @Shaz51 hope today's a better day for you my friend.

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@Shaz51 thinking of you and trust today has been a better day.

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@Shaz51

Trust all is as well as it can be for you.

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thank you @Determined

having a nothing day today -- what we really need

slept in to 7-30 and had breakfast

and mr shaz went back to bed and slept for another 5 hours

@eth, @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @Former-Member

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Did you get in adequate R&R today @Shaz51

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hello @Former-Member

more R & R today

yesterday I did nothing

today I had morning tea with mum, aunty and cousin -- i really needed the connection with family

- (mr shaz said he is not going to my mum`s again)

home now and have done the dishes and cooked chicken nuggetts for lunch

how are you and mr @Former-Member going

I hear you have visitors

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Yes @Shaz51 Bro & SIL here, trying to get a couple of jobs done.

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