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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Ouch @Shaz51

Having the staph infection burnt out of your Mum's would is essential but it does sound painful - I hope this works and wish my little champion of another Mum the best with that - it sounds serious

And your MIL is having a sun spot cut out too - mmmm - enough already - no wonder you are feeling tired and your arthritis is ganging up on you

And today you are doing your Mum's house - I hope your arthritis is better after an early night - you work so hard - I couldn't keep up with you that's for sure

Thinking of you and my little family in Qld

Dec

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Hello @Shaz51

You definitely seem to have more than your fair share of burdens right now.
I can commiserate with you about the arthritis. Mine will get worse with the cold weather. No dreaming of escaping to Qld either with the borders closed and everyone being grounded. Some exercise helps but too much physical labor puts the body out of whack. Are there any other family members you could reach out to for help with your mother and mil.

Good to read in an earlier post that you are getting Mr Shaz to want less. I am affraid that I think acquiring things can be something of a sugar hit for my partner's depression. I sometimes think 🤔 I have some aversion to wanting stuff because of this.

I am also on the lookout for what financial support is around while the economy is hibernating. Have you had a chance to look at the Job Keeper information on the ATO website? Also you might see if your state have any grants available to support small business.
I have been unwell myself. Not sure if it is seasonal allergies or cold symptoms. Can be hard to tell.

Hope you had a better day today.

Cheers 😀

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hello and hugs @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @eth

yesterday i sat looking here in the forum, but could not wrtie anything

I had kidney pain yesterday headache too , I think everything caught up to me

Raining here lots today

mr shaz was happy -- he brought a new blower @Former-Member , @Determined

hope you feel better soon @Former-Member

@outlander, @Appleblossom , @Bunniekins

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@Shaz51

Pain = 😵😵😵

New blower = 👍

Did you have an old one to trade in.

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no we getting the old one fixed @Former-Member

pain , yes thought it might be an infection but not getting worse , just annoying today

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Hi @Shaz51

You do have a lot on your plate right now - and I also know the feeling of looking at the screen and not being able to add to the stories -

Headaches do that to me - and you have othe pain as well - I get it - pain I mean - and I also understand how tired you must be and glad you are feeling a bit better

Mr Shaz and the blower - you were going to get the old one fixed but he goes and buys a new one and he feels happy for a bit - well - that's good and not so good at the same time. I am glad he is happy but I also understand that this stresses your plans too

I hope you can overcome the infection you have atm - I know you are limited in the medication you can take - can you take it easy today? Did you clean your Mum's house yesterday

Sending some hugs and maybe some clipart - best thoughts - etc

Dec

Screen staring - does it really make your hair go green?

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@Former-Member

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sending you lots of love and hugs my @Former-Member

when i saw your name my heart did a jump in the air xxx

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taking it easy this afternoon my secon mum @Owlunar

yes drank lots more water today

tried to make a appt , see if i can make one for tomorrow when we take mum up again for a redressing

@Former-Member

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Hi @Shaz51 I very much hope you are feeling better today and managed to get an appointment with your Dr and don't have too long to wait. Take care lovely xoxo

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