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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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OMG yes!

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Verily did the peoples of the world mourn, for finally they realised the terrible truth... there is no truth if too few believe it, and no lie if too many believe it...

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How do we reach a lasting peace in our society? By reaching a lasting peace within ourselves...

That which we are on the inside is that which we project to the outside... if we are at war within ourselves, then war comes to pass outside ourselves in the greater community...

If I hate myself or others, then others will respond to that hate... rarely is love the response to hate, so in the vast majority of times, if I express hate, others will respond with hate... hate will beget hate, and the possibility of peace dwindles...

However, if I cultivate love, compassion and peace within myself, then this is what I project... more often than not, this love, compassion and peace will be responded to in kind...

As individual human beings, we do not believe that we can change something as big as the society around us... but this is how simple it is... start with yourself... project the right things outward...

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This morning's internal dialogue:

"Now, close your eyes and imagine a white wall painted black."

"Can't I just imagine a black wall?"

"No, silly. That would be totally different."

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If a quantumly entangled photon looks at itself in the mirror, will it like what the other one sees?

To a photon, a mirror is a trampoline and a laser beam is a forced march...

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Why exactly is a four-leaf clover good luck? Four-leaf clover is there, growing quite happily... then some bugger comes along and plucks it right out of the ground...

The same could be said for the three-footed rabbit...

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The unmoving inescapable barrier would not let him pass, and so he invented new conceptions of freedom within his fantasy and his spirit, beyond the power of any barrier to confine. Free to soar, the once mighty barrier faded to a distant dot, a mere mote in a god's eye...

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Hate

Hate is such a powerful emotion

it will eventually destroy your mind

you'll wake and feel no need to fight it

but you can't seem to understand why

It will capture your soul, wash your body

so strong it is, it will steal your every thought

you are helpless to it's every need

a slave to it, for your soul it's bought

Be open, let the hate show, let it be

It's easier to speak true of your anger

It's impossible to set it free

For hate always has a cause

and the cause is grown by hate

you cannot turn the hands of time

and sometimes it's far too late

I wrote this poem about 30 years ago, when I think I was around scared1's age.

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My head is talking -

As I lay in my bed
These horrible thoughts through my head
You know the ones
I always dread

You're not strong
You're not like me
Gee can't you see
It's gotta be me

The thoughts are dark
The room is black
The candles on
It doesn't change a thing

I must be bad
To live like this
I must be dumb
Cause it happened to me

I feel like banging
Breaking and ripping apart
I've tried myself
It hurt the pain

It's not easy to be me
I hate myself behaviour
Can't control do not strong
I hate it so much

And do the tears come down
My face
Life is not a race
But I'm to blame

I wish I could go away
To where there is peace
Love and joy
For now there is this dark room

I think I'll never get better
And no one cares
Oh well it doesn't matter anymore
I'm all alone

If you read this I hope
I Don't worry you
Pls just let me be
I'm not strong
I'm just weak as crap

I don't know why I come on here
Maybe I need support help love and hugs
It's that little girl in me
That wants to be held.

I just need to be alone
Even though I feel so alone
Destruction is on my mind
I don't know what to do anymore.

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Wrong or Right

There's nothing wrong about being wrong

Nor right about being right

There's nothing darker than the dark

Or lighter than the light

We all have bodies and our souls

We all have the will to fight

Some of us use our Nuclear bombs

Some of us are polite

But there's always the one's like you and me

The average choice of life

We try to be part of a Family

We try to hard to be liked

So sometimes it all goes terribly wrong

We lose our will to fight

But there's nothing wrong with being wrong

So maybe we were right

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