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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Hi @Shimmer 🙂

How do I feel looking back on my writing over the years?

Fantastic. It truly is an amazing gift.

You know how your memory attaches itself to certain milestones? How you make associations with memories? It's quite interesting to observe it at work, inside the reality of one's self...

It's like hearing a song that you used to listen to years ago... all the memories of what you were doing and what you were feeling and what you were thinking... it all comes rushing back to you when you hear that song...

Or it's like the smell of frangipani flowers, bringing back a rush of memories from childhood summers past...

That's exactly what my poems and other writings are like... when I read it again, I am instantly transported back to the mindspace I was in when I wrote it...

It allows me to view the same thing from many different angles...

From this self analysis comes much potential for growth, wisdom and personal evolution...

This is my world... it's how I roll... 🙂

Hugs and happy vibes beaming to you...

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Hi @Zoe7 .... 😊

I can see you have been here already ...

Meet @Silenus ....

❤️

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Trying to not sound stalker-ish...

...erm... hello... 🙂

Hahaha...

Greetings and salutations to you @Zoe7 ... nice to meet you...

Hiya @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @Kurra @...I never remember who to tag... I love you one and all, and profess my memory is very selective, and usually awful...

I make up for my bad memory by living in this Now moment, moment to moment... always in the present...

It is a much more genuine and first-hand way of living than reliving the past or imagining the future...

...and it doesn't rely on memory... hahaha...

(Forgetful twinkle in his eye...)

Giggle...

Hugs and happy vibes beaming to you all... 🙂

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Those stats have given me a giggle @Silenus

not sure about forgetful eye twinkles ..is that the same as being a Pythonesque .. very norty boy??

I am not at all OCD about my writings .. but gotta get more like that ...

ahem ... from a long way on the other side of the spectrum .. organised chaos

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Hahahahaaaaa... hiya @Appleblossom 🙂

I wish I knew what kind of apple tree grew in our front yard in Denmark when I was a kid...

Best. Apples. Ever.

Ever.

Nostalgia... the past was oh so good or oh so bad... but nostalgia focuses on the good...

We want to hold onto the good... we do so much damage in our lives, trying to hold on to an idealised fragment of nostalgia...

Lost friends... lost loves... lost family... all lost...

Nostalgia is a way of framing loss with fondness...

The "good old days"...

It is a pleasant enough pastime... engaging in the expression of nostalgia... but it is an expression of the past, and so it is a second-hand experience... nice at the time... perhaps okay for reaffirming values and beliefs, but also immensely dangerous because of this...

The wrong lessons learned from experience can be so very difficult to unlearn...

Do yourselves a favour... skim the surface of nostalgia, but do not dive too deep... you will be dragged down without a trace...

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(Points at head)

I never know where this crap is coming from...

Hahaha...

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Dunno either. @Silenus I take on your note of caution.

Rising sky high .. or digging .. done a bit of both... a middling amount.

Its been nice knowing you .. a widdle bit.

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Hi @Silenus

Just read some of your work -brilliant!!!!

Need to check in here more

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As I continue this journey through life, evermore I find myself living the Sufi ideal... in the world but not of it...

Further and further away I get from mundane reality...

Tax returns... what are they... I own a business and haven't filed a BAS or company return or personal return in over 2 years...

A form of civil disobedience because I deem the Australian government complicit in human rights abuses... refugee conventions and stuff...

Ergo... by all that I hold right and wrong, I see the Australian government as a criminal organisation (to say nothing of the corruption and tax-payer funded endless partying)...

I do not fund criminal organisations... therefore, I have stopped paying tax...

No way is my money going to be used to fund criminality and abuse...

Most will think me insane for this course of action... I often see myself as the sanest in the room... my values of right and wrong are pure, and I'm not afraid to stand by them...

I guess that makes me truly mad in an insane society...

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@Silenus

and yet the government continues to fund themselves beyond what the 'normal' person could ever dream of affording. Corrupt - yes, overindulged - yes, disconnected from reality - yes.

...and people with MI are often called INSANE - shoes should be on the government's feet (but theirs would cost more than the average wage!)

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