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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Ah @blue bay, I so feel for you. It's incredibly challenging to feel 'left'..
You and @Silenus have a beautiful outlet in writing.
I hope to get to this myself, with more true 'fadin' happening.
I've been lost a long time...
Big kissy hugs to you both..❤😘🌌

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Glad to hear you are being productive @Silenus

I call it my writing cave .. I need to get lost in it before I am regularly productive. I just do bits now .. am still in out and about phase of life ... maybe more writing when I retire ..

Fiction can address lots of important issues.

Hi @Former-Member and @BlueBay Take care

Apple

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Indeed @Appleblossom

Fiction can address lots of issues...

It can explore those issues in great and meaningful ways...

It can look at the what ifs...

It can even look at the impossible ifs...

But most of all, fiction is our restless creative intellects, playfully looking for answers...

Fiction is the spoonful of sugar that makes the medicine go down...

Fiction is often our way of dealing with fact...

When fact meets fiction, dreaming minds collide...

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Invisible Wars
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Not many people understand the dedication needed to stay alive,
Or the huge amounts of energy it requires just to survive;

This is the problem with mental health issues... people can't see it, and so there is at least some belief that it's not real,
And all these heaped-on expectations aren't exactly a great help as we try to deal with what we feel;

Invisible wars in our heads, and us lying there dying and blee.ding,
Reaching out for a hand, but not getting the help we are needing;

"Snap out of it" is not a useful or valid thing to say,
And there's very mixed results from once a year being asked "Are You OK?";

It's not enough, it's not enough, and compassion and patience need to be learned;
As we slowly rebuild our inner worlds from invisible wars burned and churned.

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In order to survive bipolar, I have to forcefully dull myself down when I am too high or forcefully lift myself up when I am too low... constantly, I am trying to be something other than myself just to try to survive being myself... now... do you start to see how difficult this whole thing is...

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Questions
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Where is my head?
Hiding in bed?
Where is my heart?
Playing its part?

Pumping blood through my vein?
Like my head is driving me insane?
All of these asks?
Just unfinished tasks?

Why do my head and heart think and beat?
Searching for purpose in this suit of meat?
Why do my heady thoughts take me so high and so low?
Why does my beating heart continue to make me go?

With beating heart and questing thought, I face this world of strife?
Sure. It stops me asking questions. It helps me be grateful for life.

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Always enjoy reading your posts @Silenus

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Huggles @BlueBay

Thank you. It means a lot to be cared,
Emotional pain, vulnerably shared;
Especially when I hate that man in the mirror most,
Raising a glass to my inner alcoholic to toast

I may be evolved, but I ain't immune,
And we all jerk to that same old tune;
Shuffling and struggling to stay upright,
On the wrong side of right I continue the fight.

They gonna pry my cold dead life out of my fist,
No matter how it hurts, I continue to exist;
Never ever will I pass by my own hand,
These castle walls are always manned.

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Hi @Ffm48

Good to see you .... 😊

Yes, I agree, your story is hard to put down .... it is amazing, and simple in its form but sooo powerful too .... !

Well done .... ❣

Not only in the writing of it .... well done in the survival of it, the whole journey with all its trauma, recovery, reparations, revelations .... and perhaps most potently, you may have found a formula for "fairytales" that others can write to achieve healing and closure in their own lives ....

This is a very powerful voice you have found ...

Hugs n hugs ... 💜🌷💕💐🌸🐠❤️😘

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When I was going through the darkest time of my life, I began writing down what I believed to be significant in getting me to the point of suicide. I sent the first draft in for assessment. Two days ago I received a mail confirming receipt and stating that I would receive the assessment report by 21 December. To my utter surprise the report was in my inbox yesterday. The assessor told me she could not put the book down once she had startet reading it. The report is 13 pages long and she also made a first edit of mhy manuscript (not part of the brief!). She concluded the report with:

Let me congratulate you on your achievement and encourage you to take the necessary extra steps to strengthen and tighten the structure and content of (title) as you redraft the manuscript, so that your very worthwhile story may be brought to a wider reading public.

At first I thought how on earth will I be able to edit the manuscript; I haven't the time. Well, of course, I have the time and I started on it yesterday and made up a timetable so I can do all the things I love; gardening, singing, going to concerts, and yes writing. That will work.

But then I couldn't sleep. Reading through the report, reading through the editing suggestions the flood gates opened - I was reliving the trauma. I kept waking up - reliving the trauma. So overnight I was asking myself how can I do the editing? - will it be too distressing? Perhaps. but perhaps by fictionalising the story as I have to, in order to disguise the identity of living people I will heal.

My original post was removed; evidently the fairytale could not be be published due to anonymity concerns.

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