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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Hi @believeinme

As promised on the other thread ....

Maybe scroll back a few pages and have a look around ?

We have some night owls floating around, and there are a few about tonight, so you might get an answer or two if you keep posting.

I hope you feel welcome here.

F&H

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Laying down
with a frown
I'm sore to move
And achy too

I'm in a dark spot
With all that lot
I don't want to talk
Just leave me alone

I'm stuck with life
I'm just a wife
A daughter and a mum
It hasn't been any fun

I wish I wasn't here
Oh damn now I have a tear
For I know what happened to me
And I will never be free


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Hate my life right now
Just wish there was a way out
I'm not that strong like you think
Just let me have another drink

I'm tired of hearing about others
At work
And all the things they have
For I have nothing

My life is one big hole......

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Are you OK (as can be) and safe @BlueBay?

your post is very dark and worrying

what do you usually do when your mind is in this space?

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Hi @BlueBay

Are you still awake ?

Its still quite early over here, if you're up to talking for a bit ,... it sounds like someone has upset you. Was it that person at work again today ?

What is Jersey doing now ... Is she asleep ?

My S2 and DIL came over tonight .... I don't see them very often .... and they brought Chinese food .... it cheered my Dad up a bit. He's still feeling really tired and run down. He really likes Chinese omelette, so they got a lot of brownie points for that !

They said their dog love prawn crackers !! I had never thought about that, but I know our dog goes nuts for fish, so it makes sense really ....

Have you ever tried Jersey on prawn crackers ?

💜🌷

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IRISH BLESSING
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
The rains fall soft upon your fields
And until we meet again,
May God hold you
In the palm of his hand.

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SERENITY PRAYER
Grant me the serenity to ACCEPT the things i cannot change, COURAGE to change the things i can, And the WISDOM to know the difference.

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Hi @Former-Member 💕

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Hi @Faith-and-Hope, you feeling a bit better today? 👭👪👬👫💕

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Yeah @Former-Member

Received a text from WH a little while ago praising my efforts with my art piece ... he has seen the catalogue, and proclaimed my piece as good as the best ones in there, and much better than others that were chosen .... but it was always going to be that way amongst family and friends if the piece wasn't chosen .... I make the grade in terms of skill, I know that, it just boils down to what the judges are looking for, and they may have mistaken my work for a copy of a photograph outright without understanding that I referenced many photos and made extensive adaptions .... so in actual fact it's a compliment to the gift I have by default .... 😆

WH told me not to give up - I think now he has seen my work within a context like this - which is really something .... shows he is still in there somewhere underneath "the e.d. issue" with all its complexities ....

Thanks for asking 😊

🐟🐬🐳🐋🐬🐟💙

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