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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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My beautiful little Jersey, 2 yr old Kelpie. Full of energy, love and life. And I wouldn't have it any other way.

I have a friend called Jersey

i love her so much

she is a kelpie

and loves to help me

she cries when i come home

and fights to get her bone

she is the smartest dog

i love her my friend

i've never had a dog like this

but now i know the closeness

of a person and their dog

She wakes up in the morning

and goes out for a wee

and then she pounces on my bed

and kisses me good morning

she then lays next to me

and i pat her to ease my anxiety

i feel at ease with my little girl

My little Jersey

On mother's day I was teary

and cried a lot in the morning

but little Jersey came up to

looked me in the eyes and didn't move

And with her eyes i could tell

that she was saying 'it's okay'

I'm here

and i love you

I can tell by the love she has of me

and the love i have of her

that Jersey is my best friend

forever and ever

And when i take her to the beach

she jumps and dives into the water

i throw the ball and she runs likes

she's in a race, so fast

She actually smiles at times for me

I love her so much

She makes my day when i am sad

i love you Jersey, my friend

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@Faith-and-Hope I have just had an idea - i am going to type all my poems and put them in a book and then show my psych and therapist.

And when i write more I can add them to my book.

I am crying because I made you cry; friends cry and laugh together but my freinds don't cry with me at all. thank you for being my friend.

xxxxoooo

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Mind The Roses

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@BlueBay I love this ❣❣❣

It is so beautiful !!!! 💗🌺🌷🌹❤️

I am am going to keep your poems in a book too ! Thank you for sharing them with us 😊 You write my favourite kind of poetry and you didn't even know you could ! What a special gift. Thank you for being my friend too ❣

And your little Jersey sounds amazing, and it's a gorgeous name. Thank you for sharing ......

I will be looking here for more of your poems, I have written one for you too 😊

❤️

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nothing

now that i am nothing

i am happy to be nothing

theres nothing to harm me

nothing to lose or gain

i am happy to be nothing

nothing to remember

nothing to say

i resolve to be nothing

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Ahhh, but the whole universe grew from nothing @GonePirate.

So nothing was a seed in fact, it would seem .......

Nothing has its possibilities.

Nothing can be filled with something new.

Therein is a new thought 🌿

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but to be something
involves feeling something
and at the moment
I'm quite happy to feel nothing

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Then rest awhile, feeling nothing, if content you be

Till something new grows afresh

In its own time, in its own way

For something is the true creative

Wait and see !!

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Hi @Silenus

@I tucked this lengthy piece you wrote away for a while, until I could come back and read it through with my full concentration.

Thank you for the hugs, and lovely compliment. That made it easier to size up to my day. D3 had a much better day, and has her studies put back on the rails yet again, with an extension on an art assignment that had been left way behind this term. I hope her health holds together now. S2 has bounced back again this week, so on we go, in much better shape for the moment.

You have so many fabulous quotes in this piece you have written today ! I love the one that says "Funny how 'communities' and 'communication' are so similar, to me they sound the same" and the "growing in love and compassion" within this little community we have forged.

Land how much love is shared with us by dogs .... have you seen @BlueBay s poem about her Jersey yet ? There is so much love in that poem, exactly as you said, dogs lavish love on us. @BlueBay Seems to be a natural with that deconstructed, free poetry form. She has written a couple tonight, and they are powerfully emotive. Just beautiful expression. I think you inspire her !

Was sitting at the art centre with S2 and D2 today, listening to the crow's again .... I told S2 what they were ,actually saying, according to you, and he had a great laugh.

Love your dry, witty sense of humour !!

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Aww thank you so much @Faith-and-Hope. I never thought anyone would like my poems. And to be honest I never thought I could write.

Thank you for your beautiful compliments, something that I could never see that I was special. I don't feel special at all. I am just a mum struggling to keep everything going on in my head at bay, I struggle but I don't feel special.

No, hang on maybe I am special because of what i am going through - it takes a bloody strong and special peson to go through what I am going through.

You know @Faith-and-Hope I feel so thankful that I have found this forum, to make some special friends on here is amazing. And I have to say a big big thank you to @Silenus because he has given me the opportunity to share my poems (even if i think they're not that good) on here. @Silenus you have inspired me so much to open up and write. Something i never thought i could do. I will get together all my poems and put them in a book. And I will even write some positive thoughts for the day. I can't thank you enough @Silenus for being here for me and for encouraging me to keep writing. I need to express my emotions and not bottle them up, and i think writing is helping. So thank you so much. xxxxooo

Chat again soon with another poem!!!

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