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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Yes it's the only way we can get some money. If we down size the land and buy a smaller home it will help a lot. But it's stressful to sell. I don't know if I'm ready mentally.
I want to stay in same area. The house we are in was my parents but we modernised it. I want my own house not a house my parents had. I don't want any of their memories. I want to start afresh with my own family. I want to chose my own home with hubby and not my parents.

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Hi @faithandhope
The bay is amazing. On a hot sunny day when the water looks like a mirror I sit there and think wow I live in the best place. I'm so lucky to live so close to the beach. When it's winter and cold the water is rough and the wind is blowing. So much water to see. I really love where I live. Trouble is we live in a tourist area so summer is chaos with so many people but it's only for a few weeks. Then in February when school starts we have the beach to ourselves. That's when I love.

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I'm off to bed. I'm exhausted. Can't keep my eyes open. Hope you all have a good night sleep. I hope I can. Thanks everyone for chatting with me. I am so blessed to have you beautiful people on here. Xxxooo

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That's a beautiful mind-picture you just sent me @BlueBay. I'm going to hug that to me tonight, and probably tomorrow too. I feel a strong connection with water. It has so much energy, even when it's lying quite still. I love the ocean in all its states - calm and serene, or rough and tempestuous.

You can tell me about it any time. I will never get tired of hearing it 😊

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Sorry I had to drop out suddenly. @BlueBay

Moving is stressful, but keep focussed on the positive. I moved from 30 to 15 squares .. much easier to clean and look after. No regrets. I also was very frightened as I had had sole responsibility, but it turnedout fine. Just one step at a time. Let your mind flow with plans and dreams and maybe it can become a bonding experience with your spouse.

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Sending huggy hopes that your sleep was calming @BlueBay

There's definitely no need to be apologising about writing on here. This is my space, your space, everyone's space, and you're 100 percent on topic...

Sometimes, it's just about getting through each day. There's too much to process, so we just make it through to pillow time...

There will be other days for breakthroughs and major wins. Today, I made it to my pillow. That is enough of a win. In fact, it's the best win of all...

I made it through the day alive,
Tomorrow's journey is to strive and thrive,
Or rest my head on my pillow, still alive...

Hugs... 🙂

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Hi @Silenus @Appleblossom @faithandhope
I've had a terrible nightmare about myself. I have a throbbing headache in my dream was in hospital in pain and then told I have angina. But the weird thing is I have a throbbing headache this morning!!
@Appleblossom I know that reducing our home size will be beneficial to us. I keep picturing what I would like and picture our life in this new home our own new home.
It's going to be hard and stressful but my adult kids will have to help out or if not happy they can move out.
@Silenus it's hard at times. But yes I made the pillow and today is another day. Hoping to go for s walk if it doesn't rain.
@faithandhope I will tell u more about my beach!! I'm glad u like it. If I can I will put a picture on here but I don't know how. Can u pls let me know how.
Thank you all for your comforting hugs and words and hugs. Hugs and love to you all. Xxxooo

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Hi @BlueBay

@Good to hear from you. I would loooovve a picture of your beach !! Not an expert on this, but I am sure someone here will help the both of us if more info is required ... someone explained to me that the little box icon in the strip at the top of the comment box (you know - B I U -S- etc coming across the top here - two across from the 🙂) It's like it's got a scene of mountains/buildings and a sun in it. Click on that, and follow the prompts.

The first one asks if you want to access images stored on your computer, so can you upload photos of your beach to the computer ?

Would love to see some on 365 as well ❤️

This is just a personal theory but, sometimes I think our brains have way too much to process while we are awake, and there is some sort of emotional detox system happening when we sleep. Probably some of the memories, or visual dreams our brain switches into to process fears, concerns, worries, anger etc at a faster pace or gentler form, are emotionally charged enough to wake us up.

Have you ever woken up from a dream, or just from sleep, and suddenly remembered where you had put something down that you couldn't find afterwards, and had been looking for ? Like car keys, or a pen you were using, etc ? I do. I think my brain just back-tracked while I was asleep and "found" whatever it was in my unconscious memory bank. It's probably doing all sorts of other problem-solving too, 24/7, at a low under-current level.

Does that make sense ? If it does, maybe along with "postponing the worries" we can also have a mental basket that says "okay, that memory \ incident / thought is a bit too hot to handle right now - I might let my brain work on it with a good slug of sleep anaesthesia happening too". It's probably worth a try, even if we get woken up a bit in the process, it's gotta be better than beating ourselves up over whatever it is all across the day.

Tonme, it's all part of that being gentle with ourselves that we all have to develop as we go along.

Sorry, I do get a bit rambly, don't I ? 🌷

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Hi @Faith-and-Hope

I am reading what you wrote and I think I understand.

I think because my mind is thinking of so many things during the day that at night it is subconsciously trying to work it out ?? Yeah my brain is probably trying to sort things out.

I tried to do what you said about inserting photo but I am scared that it will stuff up and won't work. I will try again later. xx

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I agree @Faith-and-Hope and @BlueBay - if we are really struggling in life, our subconscious is also working to explore our issues and heal us. Without getting too caught up in dream reading, I believe that important things can be resolved or discovered by exploring what our dreams may reveal...

I sometimes have deeply disturbing dreams, but I write them off to some extent as just an extreme release of emotional stress and energy and conflict through the medium of dream...

Hugs to all...
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