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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Thanks @BlueBay

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I feel right now I'm sad to see

that all my friends are hsppy and free

no kids at home

just free to roam

I have no self love for me

I wish it didn't have to be

I'm a wife a mother

I just can't be me

And when I do take time out for me

I feel I could be free

but then the guilt comes in

and I'm stuck again in my den

For I want to hide away from life

i don't see what's the point

in trying in seeing in feeling

I wish I wasn't me

my life has taken many turns

not sure if it'll take me back

the challenges the hardships

the pain and sorrow

all I know is that I'm sad

I feel used abused and much much more

no one understands me

so I will take out of this life

I don't know when

it's hard to see a better way out

so much happiness in others

I feel I've been given a hard life to live

from caring for others

to being so dark in a home

I'm tired I'm hurting

but no one cares 😢😢 ..........

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REFLECTION

The scariest thing I ever had to encouter

Wasn't a ghost

Or a big scary monster

It was the reflection

I saw as I looked in the mirror

The moment I had to face

All the dark parts

I tried hard to erase

Yet as l looked a bit more closely

At the eyes staring back at me

I realised they were still there

Untouched and unfazed

Waiting for the day

To be let out of their cage.

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Wow @Snowie

Beautiful, 💕💕💕

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💜❄️💕 @Snowie ..... that's a wow from me too !

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@Snowie ❤️❤️ Hugs

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A cry of pain

like an eagle’s scree

pierces my heart

but not

from my lips

may pass.

The rocky terrain

of emotional strain

lies before me,

shards of shale

tumbling loose

beneath my feet

with each hesitant step ... causing stumbles,

tumbles,

bruising,

wounding .....

Yet

You are the lamp

that lights my way,

The Light

that strengthens me

from within.

Your Word

illuminates my mind

and guards me

against despair of soul, mindful

that courage

is born of woe

and sorrow.

The Way

continues to open

before me,

the path

will firm itself

beneath my feet.

Those I truly love,

and those

who truly love me,

will weather the wilderness by my side,

and together

we will outlast

this dark night.

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@Faith-and-Hope I read this a few days ago. It helped. It might help you also.

” Life by the yard is hard, life by the inch is a cinch” not sure who wrote it.

Sending lots of caring thoughts. 💜💜💜

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Thank you @Maggie ..... I am trying to operate in baby steps to feel out the way ahead in small pieces, like a jigsaw puzzle ..... and reminders to keep doing that are very helpful. Fighting off a sense of overwhelm is hard, but keeping my attention on the next step to take is what I need to do.

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By the way @Faith-and-Hope that’s a beautiful piece of poetry. 👍👍 I do the same. It gets it outside our heads I think.

Baby steps add up, sometimes you get a lot further than you ever imagined. Your light is never dim @Faith-and-Hope , it always shines through. 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻💛💛

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