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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Thank you so much for your kind words, @eth - believe me, the feeling is mutual. I am learning much from your writing... huge hugs...

We learn so much from each other, us here in this online community...

Hugs to us all... wooooooop!!! 🙂

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I hope that state of "Meh..." passes soon @eth - it's a horrid lifeless feeling... the lemon without the zest...

Lots of peeps say that if life gives you lemons, make lemonade. This is great advice, and an inspiring message. I have my own spin on it - if life gives you lemons, make Margaritas...

Cheers, @eth @GonePirate @BlueBay @Former-Member @Mazarita @Decadian @-heapsofpeepsIkeepforgettingtotag-sorry...

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if life gives you lemons put em down your fronts and pretend you got big balls?

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Better head to the beer garden then. Thanks for that idea @Silenus

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Hahaha... big balls...

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I'll put them down my shirt and have bigger chesticles!

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Hahaha... nice one @eth - that got a guffaw out of me...

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Poem - The Present Tense

This is a short poem about suicide. Note the double meaning of the titular present tense...

The Present Tense

It’s not my time to say goodbye,
But it’s damn close, without a lie;
Trying hard to make some sense,
And continue in the present tense.

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Poem - Oldron

What is actually up in my head? What is it that is me? Neurons and electrical signals firing in a soup of biochemicals and hormones? Thoughts? Emotions? This weirdness that continues to confound and astound me every day...

Oldron

Neuron
Oldron
Maybe it’s all a con;
Maybe my head is full of bees,
Buzzing loud just to tease;
Perhaps my head is stuffed with hay,
An old scarecrow better off that way.

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Poem - Grounded

This little stretch of time that these poems are coming from was a troubling period for me. I wrote 17 poems in a fortnight. Doesn't sound like a lot, but the emotions they are conveying and being "inspired" by take their toll. It is a rigorous process, this therapy that we engage in, writing out our troubles, coming to understand them...

It was coming up to my mum's birthday... the first one since she passed 9 months earlier...

It was an "inspired" time for me as a writer. Essentially that means I was well and truly caught between bonkers and stonkers...

This poem is another one dealing with suicide. Once again, the titular word has a double meaning...

Grounded

My head told me to head six feet down,
I shook my head and put on a frown,
“Why you Jonesing for the ground?
You’d be dead too, you bitch Black Hound.”

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