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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Why is depression so deceptive?

I thought that I was fine...

I told myself for months that I am fine

But when did fine to me become doing the same thing every day?

When did I start thinking it was fine to wear the same three sets of clothes for the last 4 months and sometimes for days at a time?

When did I begin to think that showering bearly once a week was ok?

Everyday I wake up and take my son to school but then I come home and stay in bed till it is time to pick him up.

I haven't done house work for weeks I just make excuses or say I will do it later, but I don't and then my partner does it .

I still cook dinner most nights and sometimes I do some baking but then I feel exhausted and sleep. I don't make it out of bed on weekends till 11 most of the time. My 6 year old gets himself breakfast. I should be up getting him pancakes like I use to do and then taking him to the park or do some cooking or crafts with him. I feel like I'm failing him as a mum.

Today I realised that I have to change.

I took my son to school and then came home but instead I had a shower. I shaved and washed my hair.

I did my face routine, actually ate lunch and cleaned the kitchen. Now I am about to go pick my son up from school and we are going to get some ingredients to make pizza for dinner.

I am going to try real hard to do better for my boy but depression just sneaks up and you don't realise it till it's already taken hold

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@Former-Member most people don't understand

Little deeds, small acts, simple tasks will take so much struggles to complete

Each day I struggle to live

Every day I force myself to complete the daily tasks

The internal fights for life, everlasting faith to humanity itself

In every each of us still here

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Tossed around by torrents

Of thoughts and many fears

Strength inside is weakened

Again so many tears

The waves that dragged me under

Now bring me to the shore

One tiny step is needed

No one asks for more

That step is hidden from my view

There’s darkness all around

I’ve tried it very often

And always hit the ground

Instead my mind just wanders

To the home above the sky

Would there be a welcome

Or would I hear a sigh

I’be heard so much is offered there

I only hope for peace

I fear I might be missing

From the great eternal feast.

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Hi @Maggie

Sometimes writing down those painful thoughts and feelings in verse can be really useful. I just want to check in with you about how you are this afternoon and will send you an email in a moment if you could check your inbox.

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@Maggie, are you ok my friend

here for you xxx

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@Maggie, I can see why you are upset my friend , you have lots of support here, hope you are ok xoxo

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@Shaz51 thankyou.

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here for you my friend @Maggie , are you ok today , i have been worried about you xxxx

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Hey, CC, tonight I lay sleepless again

And you are on my mind again

Somewhere ocean meets the sky

You step away in happiness with your lovely wife

To a life happy and fulfilling

I saw you walking one step another step

I lay feeling happy for you

It was that moment

I waited for you to disappear from my sight

The pain holds my breath for a long while

But I will this to happen

Only then my happiness will have meaning

That your life and happiness is complete

So goodbye my friend

I do remember

My promise to you

You in my heart

On that journey around the cradles

To the horizons

Goodbye my friend

To your happy life onwards

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Sorry @Shaz51 as ok as can be. Thanks for response.

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