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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Hey @GonePirate
This is how I'm feeling at the moment.
I can relate to this poem.

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Re: Poem - Part Of My Life Story In A Poem

Wow @Silenus

I was in there with you.

PP

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Re: Poem - Crash Rash

Me too @GonePirate

@BlueBay says it well. I wonder when we get good stuff happening? Ive got a poem too.....when I write it I couldnt bear to look at it for a couple of years.....Can I get some feedback??

On @BlueBay poem...yes....money is an issue. But at least we have medicare I guess but how DO WE get trhough @BlueBay ?? I bet it's your creative way of being ??

Please write more about it @BlueBay if you can, you have to get it out ??

This is my poem...please just .......know,,,,,this is how it WAS for me

Oh I just pasted instructions for a piece of crochet.....Ille find it .......

PP

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Worries

Worry worry worry
That's all my head will say
Why is there always something
To worry about

I know things hand to change
Is it me; or you or both
I get scared a lot
Of "what may be"

It shits me so much
That I'm the way I am
I wish I was strong
But I ain't

Running away would help
But them I'm all alone
I need a punching bag
I need to scream
But ni one is listening

Damn you depression
So dark in my thoughts
I hate you go away
And take away my pain

The hurt is unbearable
I don't know how to explain
I feel so sad
I just want it all to go away

I'm trying to get better
And then I fall back down
It then takes longer to get back up
I hate you depression
Worries and all

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Huge huge hugs @BlueBay - I've been where you so beautifully write from... depression is... yeah... it just is what it is. When you've been there, you get it...

I wish you all the best as you struggle with your worries, and work kindly and gently to heal your hurt, all whilst navigating the ins and outs of your relationship as well...

Sheesh... no wonder we're stressed and depressed and anxious! There's so much to deal with... all the time...

It is a grand struggle. Sending happy vibes your way...

Imaginating a nice aromatherapy massage for you, with that lovely calm natural vibe meditative music thing happening. Scents of cinnamon, vanilla, and lemon myrtle...

sending ommmmmm Zen vibes...

And more hugs... 🙂

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Hey @Silenus
That massage OMG it's amazing Thank you.
I think we the ones on here are the only ones who understand each other.
Thank you for everything - the replies the hugs the calming massage and just being here for me. I know you get it. You really do.
But I don't know if I can keep going. It's hard it's a struggle it's a worry.

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@BlueBay @PeppiPatty

sorry you two can relate

not a nice place to be in

but still here i lay

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Re: Poem - B5

I wrote this after I got my 2nd chance at this life .............

B5

Thru all my ramblings

From reincarnation to renegades

Ascension

Past lives and angels

B4 and B5

It never occurred to me

An act of omission

I guess

That right here, right now

Same issues, same dramas

Same friends and foe

Same family of origin

Was one of the options

No time to waste

Use each breath wisely

Mariomne

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Wow @eth

That's an amazing poem...

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Need to go
Right now
I need to go
Today
I'm upset and hurting
Life sucks big time
I hate my life right
Can't get out of this
Damn hole
Tears are flowing
I hate that too

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