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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Just watched NZ film Hunt for the Wilder People and started thinking about you @Former-Member

and @Sans911

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Struggling to find some space

in this house or place

to let my tears down my face

this life is always a damn race

I’m sngry at the ones that hurt me

just leave me alone and let me be

all I can see is what you did to me

i hate you so much I just want to be free

self harming seems the only way

or msybe just sit by the bay

i can’t do this anymore

i just want to break down the door

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As a child, i never thought for a second, that my life would turn out this way... it's literally a daily struggle... it's literally beyond comprehension... it's not all bad, and it's not all good-

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I fear I've lost the fight again

I have no strength left deep within

I'm drowning in my own tears

Surrounded by so many fears

There's voices everywhere I go

I'm caring but it doesn't show

I try to speak but words don't come

Left feeling alone and numb

I have no strength to stand alone

I have no where to call my home

Lost in amaze of years gone by

I no longer have the the strength to try

Yet words of hope to those so near

They will never know how much I fear

Pain so very deep inside

I no longer have the strength to hide

Oh to put the blame where it belongs

But shame lingers on and on

I have no strength to stand alone

And deep inside I have no home

Lost in a maze of years gone by

I no longer have the strength to try.

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Lots of hugs @Maggie ❤️❤️

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I love it when my support worker say 'give all the glory to God '

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I'm going to cancel my up coming psychiatrist appointment at the last moment because i really couldn't care about what her paid opinion thinks.

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Thanks @BlueBay very much appreciated.

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Judged for helping out a family member and told that I am neglecting my partner

When plans changed because of the unexpected it's like people expected me to read minds or predict the future they seem to forget that I am only human

Criticized for my decisions I feel so alone right now even with so many saying that they are here

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Not coping with my thoughts real well. It's goes from being a dystopian to a utopian and experiencing the full ranges of emotions that go with. It literally spins me right out. Meanwhile my real life just stays the same and never changes.

I'm confident i know what's going on. I'm confident my conscious mind is correct in it's own right, in it's own specific, strange and normal way. However it's also very dysfunctional and it ain't working real well. I'm down and out basically...

I figure I just gotta accept it and work with it as best i can... because i can't see a great deal of change happening anytime soon... basically because of fearing uncertainty, insecurities, and doubting it will work out... facing people/triggers...

Everything that's happened while I've been unwell has done damage and taken it's toll on me (the full storyline in my mind, the things in the real world it's attached to) + the treatment has also had a negative impact on myself... it's super frustrating and disappointing to think, realize and accept there's no getting on with life from this point onwards... but instead just having to accept everything for what it is...

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