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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Lonely:

today I feel very lonely

depressed deflated and sad

sngry guilty snd frustrated

i feel I have no friends no more

they don’t care about me no more

go away fir weekends snd don’t ask me

loneliness has hit me hard today

I am a loser a lonely person

I try to have friends but all I have

is 2 friends

drpression has taken over agsin

it’s dark it’s scary I csnt go there

for if I do I will do something I may regret

it’s hard to stsy positive get over depression even childhood trauma

long term therapy she told me today

I thought 8 years was long enough

don’t think I can take anymore

its tiring draining exhausting

I’m crying

but no one cares

because I’m a loner

snd it really hurts

no one has to reply

it really doesn’t matter

I just wrote how I feel at the moment

I’m really hurting

I’m scared

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The duty to myself.. ...

I've got so much to be responsible for... I've got a cat, a dog, a python and some gold fish... I've got family, I've got friends, I've got community, I've got God, and I've got myself...

I need to take care of all these things as best I can. I need to make sure all is well - So they can look after me in return...

I have my unit, I have my stuff, I have my car & I have my future...

The duty to myself... The duty to my life... The duty to my wellbeing... The duty to my care...

I started what I would most like to achieve - 10 years ago... And it's all finally become a reality...

Eude

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Hi @BlueBay think self care. Think positive future. Think about the little thoughts that you are putting to the side and not acting on. - So you can sit here and feel this way. - take some action toward achieving the next goal that comes to mind. - no matter how big or small & and see how you feel in twenty. - think about the solution and not the problem x it can only come from within x Eude

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Thanks @eudemonism

@trouble is I don’t have any goals or positive future. Self care is whst I need to do.

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@BlueBay whatever thoughts you're putting off and not acting on - is where the solution begins. Don't let the enemy rule over you! Back track in your mind and get on with what you know is best for yourself. Whatever it is... - just do it! 😀 don't worry about anyone else. Worry about yourself. And let people worry about how you worry about yourself and your life so well. 💗

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@BlueBayI believe we all have an instinct to know what is in our capabilities and which is also In our best interest. I think we all know that trusting in people can be vein. What's the first positive thing you can think of doing for yourself where you are right now?

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@eudemonism I think the positive thing I can do right now is go and listen to some meditation on my phone while in bed.

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@BlueBay that sounds great. Keep your thoughts positive and keep looking forward. Tomorrow is a new day. You can think about what you can achieve for yourself tomorrow.

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Alone in this world is all I will ever be

No one really cares about me

We're alone

Your alone

No one will believe you

Was all I heard as a child

Now it's

Im here

I will be there for you

But when I need it they don't want to hear it

So alone is me

Alone is all I will ever be

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I'm reading I'm listening to you @BlueBay

@Silenus @Former-Member @eudemonism @Former-Member

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