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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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@outlander
I'm here now I just read your poem
Bella xo

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This poem explores how an appreciation and contemplation of death and darkness can be the source of light and truth...

Being gifted-cursed with bipolar is an interesting journey... I see the good that depression does, beyond the immediate deadness and pain...

I have stared into Death's bony orbit and survived... for that, I am grateful... it has taught me so much about life...

~~~~~~~ ♤♧♢♡ ~~~~~~~

Skull
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Get pulled into Death's orbit,
Staring into cold empty eyes;
From darkness is truth's light lit,
Death strips life of its many lies.

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Good morning everyone, sorry I'm not real responsive to all of your works and writings...

Another dark, cold and lonely. Morning. Has been spent... Writing in the name of seeking... Approval, recognition and acceptance... Although the only other living creature in the room... Is a black dog... That is fast asleep on the couch... I'm hoping that my writing has reached the eyes of several other beings bye sunrise... I hope it effects them in a positive way... And I'm hoping they are OK and brought a little joy bye my written words... Ahoy too all those in cyberspace who come across my words... It's time to play my guitar... It's time to sing my song... It's time to face the isolation... It's time to accept the wrath of my lonely soul... It's time to be patient... It's time to embrace the happiness of life... And soon enough... The sunrise will be here...

Eude

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I think I've come to terms with the desperation the is within me.

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@Silenus @outlander & @Former-Member how are you all travelling?

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Hi Eude 🙂 @eudemonism

I'm weary but well... had to drive down to work for a meeting, then drive home again before Easter hit, so it was about 22 hours of driving in a 2-day stretch...

Ow, my shoulders...

[Si imaginates a team of masseurs and masseuses to work away the knots and tension...]

How are you doing, Eude? It sounds like it's been a tough trot for you, especially in the last little while...

Our mental anguish can come and go in waves sometimes, like emotional contractions before the birth, as it were...

When we struggle with difficulty and pain, eventually we are forced to change, and these "rebirthings" can be terribly traumatic...

I hope that some gentle peace finds its way into your day. 🙂

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Hi @Silenus the joys of working... The joys of life... The joys of money...

I ain't worked for about 9 years...

I'm tired of being hurt everyday... And I'm tired of bottling up my feelings which other people are causing... I'm tired of not speaking my mind which is based on gut feelings...

Anyway I'll work it out...

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Indeed, @eudemonism... before I got this contract, I hadn't worked more than an odd shift of bar work here and there for about 5 or 6 years. It was brutal, but necessary...

Recovering from a breakdown is a full time job, often for many years...

It's taken a long time to put Humpty Dumpty back together again... and he still makes weird noises when he walks... 🙂

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It's good that you've 'got it together' @Silenus it must be a good feeling?

I'm going to be doing some work based on confrontations and conflict management. Based upon wise decisions for both parties involved. Nobody wants their feelings to get hurt... And I've just realized my feelings have been getting torn into little pieces bye people in my life... Feelings of being used, feelings of being second best, feelings of being lead astray, feelings of becoming morbid, feelings of lost potential.. I can't help but place some responsibility and accountability on my associates..

Eude

If I don't do something about it.
No one will.

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Hey Eude...

I've got some pretty "out there" ideas, which have worked really well for me, even been life saving, but may be total bollocks for anyone else...

Part of that is that I don't involve any other person in the really deep journey of my personal growth and development. I do not blame a single other person for any of my own life circumstances...

Other people may have contributed to my life situations, but they did not and cannot make my life choices for me. They are mine alone to make, no matter how crap the circumstances of my life may be...

So... how can I blame anyone? The life circumstances are the reality. Perhaps failings in myself or those around me brought about these circumstances, but so what? The circumstances must be dealt with in the first instance, and the apportioning of blame or hurt is an ongoing painful process that does absolutely no good for anyone...

There is a huge difference between life circumstances and the choices we make in response. Self aware responses serve us so much better in both short term and long term.

From experience, I find that involving other people in my deep mental health and personal development only gives me an excuse to blame someone else, defer, distract, and otherwise shirk responsibility for what ultimately can only ever be about my own choices in my own life...

It's me in the mirror, me under the microscope, me in the spotlight... if I try to hold other people up in front of that, there will be too much temptation and opportunity to lay blame and responsibility for my welfare elsewhere...
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