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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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i have noticed that i really enjoy writing. so i am going to keep writing my story. and i am going to put all my poems in my book as well.

writing helps me express how my deep inner feelings are in a way that i can't express verbally. so for me it is helping my psych as well in understnding where my thoughts are coming from.

i love writing.

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Re: The Land of Enuf

So many folk forget

Spending life a-seeking yet

Thinking they can add to knowledge

Ancient, unlearned, yet to beget.

Striving to possess more

Mortgage, time and childhoods for

A bigger roof

Is it making them happy?

Where's the proof?

I like to live in the land of enuf

She owns me

I care and laugh

Not the land of more

Healing needed

Locking all doors

____________________

(The 'she' I refer to is mother earth)

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Love it @eth !

So true... if everyone were happy with enuf, there'd be plenty for all... 🙂

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Re: Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Thanks @Silenus

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Writing this has brought up so much emotions from my abusers to my parents to me. Sobbing as I write this i don't know where all the tears are coming from.

Today i feel a little unease

as i sit outside with the breeze

i can feel the air cold

i don't need to be told

that today i feel unease

Some days are harder than others

to get up and feel like doing

I sit with my tea while it's brewing

i really don't know what i want

some times i feel like crying

and then i feel like dying

just someone pls take away

the pain I'm in today

life is not fair i know

it rips your heart from that glow

i try so hard

as i write on this card

nothing makes sense to me

i wish it could just be

why did you leave me

i hate what you did to me

So now I wash my tears

and just let them flow away

for one day i will know

that i will see you again

and as i sit here sobbing

i wish it was you i was throbbing

for you will never know

how much pain I've been through

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You are writing so powerfully @BlueBay. It really helps us get our feelings out. Hang in there 🙂

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Beautifully and powefully written @BlueBay

In so much of our dealings with our mental health, we come back to that hurt inner child, don't we? At least that's been my experience...

Huge hugs to you @BlueBay

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Thanks guys. I seem to always go back to my inner child. Xx

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Re: (Em)Power

Simmering in my own darkness again

or is it an anger that's valid?

A response to aggression both tangible and tantric

and sometimes silent

but never, ever passive

A cancer that grows

when we can't be expressive

Power in

Power up

But not Power over

Somedays the wrath

can even rise up

over acts of omission

definitely something missing

Forgot to make space

for another's needs

Now and then the problem

is the absence of true deeds

Could even be as small a thing as not seeing.

Forgive me I'm doing my best

but am I?

Time and time again

feeling put through some test

Why do I?

Continue to crusade

on some altruistic notions

When at home I don't make the grade

Won't trade

for the truth

It starts at home

A freak of mother nature

A work in progress

Creating myself each day

Power in

Power up

But not power over

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@BlueBay Attending to your inner child is healthy and necessary. As you know as a parent any child screaming for attention needs love and nurturing. Did you make it to the outpatient's place?

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