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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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love it....

@eudemonism

after reading I have been trying to imagine the lyrics with music...

what tempo the music would be...

are you into rap? hip hop? pop? slow romantic?

a classic guitar..piano....drums?

fascinating...this is a good way to keep yourself busy when agitated...

so many famous writer/musicians have written their music when struggling with issues..

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Today's weather resembles who I am
The sun shines so brightly
It almost masks the grey clouds rolling in
The sun is my smile
The clouds are my troubles

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Inside the darkest hole
She sits by herself
Desperate to be heard
Desperate to be held
But no one ever comes

No one knows her pain
The pain she endures
Is constant everday
Then one day that clarity comes
And she knows what must be done
For the darkenss seems to much
For the fight to continue on

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Oh my, @Snowie

I hate that feeling, that reality taking hold.

Also, I've spent quite some time hating myself for keeping it all bottled in... for years I struggled on in silence, sure that everyone else felt this extreme psychic pain, this eternal inner conflict, this explosion of emotion and doubt and self sabotage and fear and...

Well... I'll skip the description... pretty well all of us on here are here because we are fighting some pretty dark and serious stuff in our lives...

The happily ever after... that left years ago...

And yet... I am here, a survivor of 46 years of bipolar, 39 years of that undiagnosed... I have been down... and down.

But there is hope. After 7 years of working my guts out to learn more about myself and how better to survive, I can honestly say to you all that it is possible to turn things around from lowest ebb back to a point of guarded functioning in the really real world...

It took a while, but stuff that used to floor me? Meh... I could care less...

Don't get me wrong. Stuff still floors me all the time... but every time I fall down, getting up gets a little more familiar and easy, despite the bumps and scrapes...

Many gentle hugs beaming your way...

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Thanks @Silenus, just getting my thoughts out

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Isn't it liberating and just downright evolutionary?

Love it, @Snowie

Huggles... 🙂

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I love with a heart that remembers no hurt... this is emotional Mindfulness at its best... never will I surrender to pain's behest...

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LIGHT

Light comes from within us all
It drives us everyday
It helps to keep us going
When things don't go our way
But what if all you see
Is darkness through and through
What happened to that light
Is it gone for me and you
Happiness is un heard of
For darkness leads the way
My time has come to leave this life
Even after everything that I do
My secrets will be burried deep
And will stay for all of time
For you deveserve a happy life
Without me by your side

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@Snowie 💜

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GOODBYE
The silence comes from inside of me
For the pain never seems to end
I wish I had the courage
To let this day be the end
Everything is planned today
For the finish line is so close
Just one last thing for me to do
To end this suffering from hell
The means I have are next to me
Waiting to be used
For soon I will just a distant past
And my pain will end at last

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