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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Hey @Silenus,

question time, it’s been a while, just keeping you on your toes.

not sure if you experience this - when inside you are screaming but there are no words. Everything seems wrong and uncertain. If you have gone through this what did/do you do to get through?

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Oh yeah, baby, I've been on that rich ride many a time... 🙂

If it is feeling like a truly existential challenge, which happens when words are nowhere near useful, I have to put in a lot of serious time and effort to process things. Years of experience are needed to respond appropriately to the at times rather complicated issues involved...

What do I do when everything falls to crap?

I breathe. Pure. Simple. No layers atop it. Breathe. Focus until focus becomes effortless...

There is Mindfulness, pure, simple...

Focus on love and loved ones... they help to ground you, but the real and proper reason for continuing life must always and ever come from you...

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Thanks for responding @Silenus. It helps to know others get that part. 😢 for the last part as just when I think I know the reasons to stay I forget them. Will keep breathing for now. 💜🤗

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A Waste Of Breath?
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Life is breath, and breath is life
Steady breath will ease life's strife;
Ease your heart, to beat less keen,
A lusty life, lived healthily lean.

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@Silenus

Nice!

SP

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Thank you, @SleepyPanda 🙂

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oh wow @Mazarita

this resonates so strongly for me ....

do you mind if I copy and paste this on to my missing son thread?

I find that as I move around on different threads...some visited occasionally before...some new...some not seen for quite a while...I find responses that I can connect with...

yet in the real world ...I am so often misunderstood...in fact...in most cases I am...having forever to justify what I was trying to say...so very draining..

I now say to my husband I speak my own tongue ....not yet learnt by others I have met...

he just gives me that look of ...here we go again...

at this moment in time I am coping best by being myself...be true to thine own self....

@Teej whenever you are overwhelmed with feelings or not understanding whys and wherefores...I have learnt a valuable lesson only from recent times...following my many years of self analysis...

always listen to the thoughts around the feeling...note the feeling...identify if possible...accept is there and then breathe...focus...distract...breathe...ground yourself...grounding works best for me...breathing and mindfulness and relaxation work when I am not at my worst...for me I ground with nature...

@Silenus I love the idea of grounding thinking about loved ones....I will certainly practise that one..

thank you all

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At the airport now. I am honoured that you would like to share my poem, @Former-Member ox

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@Mazarita

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@Mazarita@Hope that you are winding down and enjoying the feeling of being elsewhere ...

I think you get what I mean by that

would you you believe I don't know how to copy and paste frome here!

I could ask @Eth who is having computer lessons..

or I could just resort to pen and paper

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