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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Moods sliding

feeling my feelings

must have been numbed

before this new dose.

Anaesthesia can be

a blessing bestowed

on we whose emotion

is too hard to swallow.

But waking is welcome

when the body can move

again, be more lively

than long waking sleep.

Balance as always

so hard to find

and then to maintain

a tightrope existence.

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Wind whistling,
Snow glistening,
We try not to,
But we're all listening.

Loud screams,
Bad dreams,
It's very far,
But close it seems.

Sad day,
Lost our way,
All we can do,
Is simply pray.

Innocence gone,
Life no longer long,
We may not know,
But we're all doing wrong.

Joy lost,
The Holocaust,
We look to see,
Hearts covered in frost.

Wars fought,
Sins taught,
Making mistakes,
Hoping not to be caught.

Not taking blame,
Pushing for fame,
As advanced as we are,
We're still all untamed.

Too much pride,
Needing a guide,
We will deny it,
But behind lies we hide.

Hurting others,
Betraying brothers,
Many forgetting,
To appreciate mothers.

Lies are fed,
Filling heart and head,
Through all of these years,
Innocent blood has been shed.

Children abandoned,
Lonely and stranded,
We're all wasting the life
That we have been handed.

Taking from the poor,
We're loving no more,
Fight to be free,
End up starting a war.

People starting fights,
No longer enjoying the sights,
While mere mortals are taking
Our God given rights.

Soldiers killed,
Void can't be filled,
Pay close attention,
For pure souls have been tilled.

Need to find peace,
Work together like geese,
But greatest of all,
The hate needs to cease.


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The knot is strong,
The strings are tight.
It won't break loose,
No matter how much I fight.

The grip is fierce,
Disguised in every tear.
I wish to overcome
This emptiness of fear.

I know once on my own,
I might not survive.
But there is a mere chance
For me to be alive.

The cost of losing the bond
Could be my biggest mistake.
But I am done living
A life I can no longer fake.


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I want to say something
but I don't know what
It feels like a desperate need
But it's something I haven't got

Somethings eating my mind
from deep on the inside
Is it cruel to be kind
Is my goodness, evil implied?

There's another person inside me
A person I can't control
I have to follow them, I have no choice
I have to do as I'm told

I don't hear them or see them
not any more
But just glimpses of them scare me
I don't want to be like before

So I battle the daily patterns
eating, drinking and sleeping as well
& all the charming embarrassing stuff
going to the toilet is a constant hell

& I choose to see what good there is
especially when it seems outweighed
I have learnt to seek out positive
when I have nothing but dismay

This time my other me did the right thing
took the dogs to the beach
Let me see the sea

But trust is still an issue, with me
when it comes to me.

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SAFE

in my skin

living on a flight path

stepping out

being seen

in nature

or cars

airplanes

in here

behind glass

whispering

smiling

with bitch face

numb

alive

asleep

blinking in and out

here

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I'm all for having real conversations about mental health...

I'm bipolar. I have been ignorantly struggling with this for most of my life. The depressions are crushing, and the highs are way too much for a mere mortal brain to handle.

But you don't know to seek help, because it's all you've ever known. It's your "normal". You think that everyone else must be the same. And so you think you're being weak and stupid when you just can't cope any more. Suck it up, and bloody carry on regardless, you wimp.

You push on. Eventually, without fail, you break. Badly. And often very messily, with a lot of collateral damage to loved ones.

Without the conversation, there is no way to know that your "normal" is actually way off normal healthy means.

How to live with mental health issues is key... both for the "sufferer" and the loved ones around them.

Having conversations is the start of it all. How are you? How am I? Is this "normal"?

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Hello everyone...

I hope to respond to peeps in the next few days... so much amazing and soulful heartfelt writing... thank you all for sharing your words and your heart's and head's delight, respite, pain and travail...

It's been a rough trot lately... physical issues triggered a very brutal depression... body and mind... the physical and mental... ever linked...

Hugs and happy vibes beaming to you all... 🙂

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Hi @Silenus, always good to see you. Hugs!

Sorry to hear you have been through a rough period lately, with physical and mental health. Brutal depressions, I know them well. Fortunately not lately. Body and mind is so linked, totally agree. But it sounds like you are back from the worst of what you were experiencing, even if there's always struggle and hardship on your journey. Look forward to hearing more wise words from you, when you are ready.

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Hi Maz... @Mazarita

Hi all...

Lovely to feel the love... hugs to all...

So anyhoo... long story short... got gastro real bad whilst down at work. Normally, gastro lasts 2 or 3 days. Mine lasted 12 days. In that time, I lost 14kgs...

Serious physical trauma... triggered mental trauma...

Funny holistics...

Then I aggravated the 'rroids down below, and have been on waiting list for a procedure and colonoscopy for a couple of months.

Haven't been able to drive the thousands of kms per week I was doing for work, so have had to rely on infinite patience of the dude I'm contracting my services to.

Then depression knelt down before me and punched me right in the beans, good and hard...

Ouch...

Self-medicated just a smidge too much, but the important thing is that I survived it...

Yay... woot woot...

Hugs to all...
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