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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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If you want to @outlander.......could you find a simple version of the fairystory and re read it ?

When the Princesses Golden Ball slipped away from the Princess and the ball fell in the water, ahe started crying beccause the Golden Ball was all her chilhood loves and dreams.....

What would your Golden Ball be about?

Check out this version...

http://thewonderofchildhood.com/2011/06/the-frog-king-or-the-frog-prince/

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My golden ball @PeppiPatty would be the hopes ivr had of getting better. I cant see that happening at all now. They would also be the memories i have of my nan. The only thing i have left of her besides memories is a ring she gave me and i wear it all the time even to the horses.
The crystal ball with my hopes of getting better is smashed all over the floor

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And this is the first yr im really able to grieve now that everyone else has gotten through that worsr stage of grieving

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Here is a wonderful little version of the story.....Maybe this will have some ideas for you ? You certainly needed to grow up very quickly........it didnt seem that you have had any time to grieve your Grandma or spend time being a woman while you care for all.....

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We are wiriting together and backward and forwards......lol......

I need to go because my husband is being twisy and wanting 24/7 attention but Ill write more.

@outlander.Im really proud of you in that you are recognising your self at such a young age of 21.......even though you feel really old...... you deserve to be feeling young.

Have you thought of seeing a proffessional grieving councellor? You can see your GP about it ? It will begin your own journey of re finding your "Golden Ball," your JOY.

I care greatly

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Ok ive had a read of the link you shared here. Im not sure what your trying to get at? @PeppiPatty

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I see a therapist already not for grieving. I just let the emotions come and go in regards to that @PeppiPatty

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It is that @outlander that you have had too much responibility given to you ....I feel that you identified with your Grandma ...for instance the symbol of a ring wrapped around your finger.

I wonder that you need grieving councelling and remembering what you are like without this huge responsibility ??

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You are a lot more responsible than I was at 21 @outlander......

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It is both a gift and a burden being this way @PeppiPatty not sure which one is better yet.
I do see a therapist currently but not for grieving. I see her for other things.
Thanks for thr chats. I do enjoy them but i know you have to go so until then i will love and leave you ❤❤
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