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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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The more real our problems become, the more we escape to the unreal...

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Hi @Former-Member... 🙂

I think I would face the ground too...

Giggle...

I face the sky, so Death can kiss my arse,
I face the ground, so I can see the end of this farce...

Hahaha...
What a choice...
Do you yell?
Do you use your voice
As you fell?
Do you enjoy the final soar,
Spread your wings and fly?
Do you let out a mighty roar,
Or a contented or resigned sigh?

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I spread my wings and fly
And enjoy the freedom

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So anyhoo...

Still working full time, half of it interstate with lots and lots of driving for my daily commute...

My bipolar is being an absolute fecker at the moment, and has been for the past couple of months... work and stress and sleep disturbances combining to flare up in multiple bouts of rapid cycling, a mixed episode, and just generally having absolutely no idea what my moods, thoughts and emotions are doing...

I face it all without judging, without questioning, without trying to make any rhyme or reason of it...

It's just dumb chemical imbalances in my noodle, manifesting as one heck of a wild ride. Not a fan, but it is what it is...

I guess the best take-home positive from it all is that I reckon 2 years ago I wouldn't have stood a snowball's chance in hell of being resilient or strong enough to hack it...

Grits teeth...

Two months to go on this contract, but I have a sneaky suspicion that they will want to extend...

How will Si respond? I don't even know what I'll be feeling in 2 minutes, much less 2 months... gggnnggrrrhhhh...

Hugs and odd-mixed-up-kind-of-happy-kind-of-dunno-what vibes beaming to you all.

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Hi @Silenus

The world is mine to chose
After all the abuse
The world is mine to chose

If I stay or if I go
It'll be so
If I stay or if I go

I spread my wings
There are no strings
I spread my wings

I fly away
No need to stay
I fly away

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@Silenus

100% - no idea what the next minute will bring.

How's work after a long break? What did you end up doing? Lost my work since we last spoke. Getting by. Starting "fresh". Would just like to walk and swim in the sea all day and play with puzzle and paint pictures, cuddle teddy bears.

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Poem - Untitled

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Oh how I've wanted to drop it all and run
Too foolish to be straight, too serious to be fun;
This stain on my brain driving me insane,
This dart in my heart tearing me apart;
Anhedonia and dissociation come to take me away,
I know not what I do, I care not what I say.

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The work part of it is okay I guess, @Former-Member. It was a bit of a shock to the system after such a lengthy break from full time employment.

I'm doing technical writing at the moment... at the best of times I have absolutely no idea about money and business procedures and things like that, and they've got me writing risk analysis stuff, weighted average cost of capital (wtf is that?) and a whole bunch of stuff that I would never want to touch with a 10 foot barge pole...

But... humans expect me to have money to be able to pay for food and drink, and to keep the fires of our society stoked... so, I do the good little slave thing and pretend to be human...

I think I've got most of them fooled... hahaha...

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Good on you @Silenus

Isn't that the grand plan? Fool the rest!?

5 months into unemployment and nearly 2 years into part time employment I don't think I'll ever get to where I was, nor do I want to. My goal posts have changed.

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@Silenus, I like your dream with Mick Jagger and Keith Richards and their boredom. I don't remember dreams much except in fragments at the moment, haven't for a while really. Used to be obsessed with them. Still like them. I'm also aware of a lot of boredom with me at the moment. Someone I know tells me the one who is bored is the boring one. Maybe it was Mick and Keith who had the problem in your dream. I find you interesting!

Traffic making a sound like rain, except for a car horn. A crow rising above with its cry. It's that time of the afternoon when the sun shines through the trees and creates wavery patterns on the blinds. An everyday joy.

Time is going slowly in much solitude through this semi-delirious, viral state I'm in.

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