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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Re: Poem - Musings On Alcohol

More power to us, @eth. 🙂

Cheers to all of us survivors. It's not easy, but it's worth it...

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I muck around with Photoshop a little bit from time to time. I composed this image to go with my poem The Glass Demon...

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Always remember to breathe @Silenus. Grief is such a tricky beast - I always say it has it's own timing. Mother's Day is bringing up a lot for several others in these forums too if you want to look at what they've been saying just put it on the search bar.

Your poem about pot yesterday brought up a lot for me. I seem to have left it behind (with significant effort and several slips) after nearly three decades of chronic self-medication, partying or hiding with it. Here's something I just wrote in response to the thinking about addiction your poems triggered :

I swam in an ocean of pot for years

It dulled anxiety, calmed my fears

Then I was forced to see

Ups and downs were part of me

And I'm actually more stable

No bong living on my table

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Hahaha... love it @eth 🙂

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AHhhhhhhhh! Wow! Thank you all for this thread.

@Silenus your insight, intelligence and humour are great to read. If I had known you inr I would have bought your book. "Viscera, Sera" The introductions to the poems help me understand you and the ideas in your poetry better. They speak to the philosopher in me and the poems to the ebb and flow of my emotions. I had to laugh out loud at your "Mulling it over" ... it brought such long ago memories back. Gotta get out of my dressing gown now ... no, no, no, not just yet.

@eth So glad you are inspired to write again. There are seasons for all things. I have a literary uncle experience. Only he was also the guy diagnosed with bi-polar. A bit the same, a bit different. It does help me to share and read all the little snippets of "me" in other people's words. Hope you are going well.

@Sehnsucht Your description of:

____________________

When you ask me a question, I cannot answer ....

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Fitted me to a T from about 10 yrs to about 35 ... I did eventually get a mouth .. maybe some wish I never had ... lol ... ah well ... too late now.

@PeppiPatty Isnt it wonderful and arent we lucky to have different forms of expression for different aspects of ourselves: Simple, complex, flat, layered, straight or twisty ...

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Oh @BlueBay - I feel your pain. Huge hugs...

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@BlueBay so wonderful that you can focus on feeling the glow with the family you have created. Your poem says so much.

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@Silenus how do I get rid of my pain. The pain is huge; it hurts so so much.

I hate them yet I love them. It doesn't make sense. What my mum has said to me last year has damaged me so much. I haven't betrayed the family for telling them I was abused as a child. How can I? So much negative thoughts today. I feel like telling hubby and kids to 'stuff everything' and I'm going - but I can't.

Thanks for the hugs. I can feel it right now xxx

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@eth

I'm trying so damn hard on that little bit of light that I can see, that glow. But lately all I can think of is that damn dark hole I keep falling in.

It's so hard; it sucks big time.

Thanks for your comments. xx

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Hi @Appleblossom - thanks so much. Hahaha... I ummed and ahhed about whether to post the Mulling It Over poem. Glad you got something from it... 🙂

Here's another silly one written on the green...

Weed to Succeed…

When life’s a drag,

Light a f.a.g;

When there is no point,

Suck on a joint;

When everything’s a joke,

Have a toke;

When you’ve got a gripe,

Puff your pipe;

When the world’s gone wrong,

Hit that bong;

When you just go “F**k it!”

Gather round the bucket.

I cry a little tear.

It’s really no surprise.

Smoke gets in my eyes.

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