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I just need to share this: for the first time in so very long, today I actually feel happy. Nothing particularly exciting happened - in fact something unpleasant occurred. It hasn't taken my pleasure away. I had a picnic lunch with another mother and our children. We sat in the sun, on some grass near a playground. We initially sat somewhere else, and were moved on for being inadvertently on "private" land, but it didn't upset me. It was a simple, enjoyable time. And I feel happy. I think I'd forgotten how that feels. I feel light. This is wonderful. Wow!
@outlander Oh no my PRECIOUS!! You are so brave & Mentally strong like I am! Come here & sit next to me& I will kiss your hand & say a little prayer for your quick healing? Only if you want me to? I will hug you & be there for you, just like I would love that for myself. I will love that for you! 🙂 xx
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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my hand is very sensitive atm. im finally able to take it off the ice though. its just resting on my bed. typing one handed is a great pain in the backside.
mentally strong no, physically yes, ive been told i have a hihg pain toleranace, or use to. i remember someone saying to me a long wile ago 'what are you doing' i said cleaning they said you should be on the florr rolling around in pain.
i dont do that now either but getting close im sure.
but i will come and sit with you @Former-Member
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Unknown userMember
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@outlander I have the same -HIGH pain Threshold- Pain Tolerance Level- too, always have from a baby! I am waiting feeling you sitting near me now. I see you as very Mentally Strong, with a loving soft gentle heart. Very caring of people & animals, you have a child within that just reaches out so needing to be heard, needing to be loved unconditionally. Needing to be appreciated & seen for the beauty, & the kindness you show & have within you. I see within your heart, I see the sorrow, & hurt, I feel your pain. I see the real you, so amazing, so loving, caring, so giving, so much fun, so creative, so much a Masterpiece as you were created to be Outlander. my precious One! You are welcome & needed in this world. Do not let the deception, jealously, strife, & the short comings of this world make you believe in the lies, because I tell you the Truth! & the Truth sets us free! Free to be you, Precious! Its your birth right, take it its free! I know, because I had to learn this, I chose to believe this, & now I receive this. Hang on to the vision & no matter what do not let it go. I understand & I really do love you & Care! Now I am smiling BIG time here, because I am here for you, only if you want me to be, ok? No pressure, just Love & care I am offering, we already have friendship! 🙂 XO 🙂
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Unknown userMember
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@outlander I am getting tired now,I will try & get a good sleep with some of my. Passion Flower tea & some pretty relaxation music playing softly. Here I will leave you the link its beautiful water flowing & amazing magic music I love it? I hope you love it too? Nite Nite, don't Let the bed bugz bite! Talk again soon! Love & Hugs Bella XO 🙂
I never 4got, you, you, & even you, 2!! SO THERE! 😛
(((((((((GROUPHUG)))))))
2 is company 3 is a crowd 4 is well, I'm thinking?? Still thinking? Hmmmmm? Yes! I have it! I really do!! 3+1= 4 4 is 1 more than 3 Oh no!! I forgot about, me?? 4+1=5 5 is the reason that I thrive! 5 is the reason I can be happy to be alive! 5 is why I can be more than just 1 1 is a lonely number. So on that note & number I shall say...Adore' Not sure if I spelt that rite? but It's very late at nite. I'm feeling alrite rite rite! So plz be careful not 2 let those naughty little bed bugz bite! Good Nite! Going>>>>>>>>>>> Going>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Gone>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> 😛
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Sans911Senior Contributor
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@Former-Member you make me smile. Love having you back
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